I felt sorry for you as I read your post and am glad that now you make enough as a nanny to not have to work as a sex worker full-time. That is serious money and I don't know if I could resist the temptation to go back and make that I wish you luck in your future endeavors and for those that judged OP, remember Guys If you don't believe me, try it. Point your index finger ahead and you will see your pinky, ring and middle finger pointing right back at you!!!! OP nothing wrong with doing what you are doing.
I can make you look like an angel. I once gave dad a bj while wife was in shower. And then he bent me over. Kids were at neighbors and I was folding clothes. I got a bonus that week. So I guess that makes me a prostitute. FYI mom and dad were seperated but still living together at that time.
And monkey lady, I kissed the kids on the cheeks the next day. Monkey shines- your mouth is as dirty as osama bin laden's porn collection.
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Don't you have contact with kids? MS - I don't mind that your vagina is a community bicycle. However, it's the way you share the info i. I would say It's rainy today. You would say it's rainy today- reminds me of the day I had 3 dildos inside of me at the same time. Just be more normal about how you share it. It doesn't always need to go with every topic. Or in every sentence. Except my employer knows what I do on my nights off. Hell, last time I had a session I am a professional Dominatrix , she watched my kid for me knowing full well where I was.
Believe it or not, some people freely choose sex work. They like it - some like me even find it empowering! OP,I hope you are not kissing the kids you Nanny for after being with Men you know nothing about! I must say this is one of my fav posts so far! Thank you for having the guts to write it OP. I wonder if the plural form of that would be "peni"?
And to monkeyshines, if you ain't doing oral or anal, what the hell are you getting paid for? Your twat can't be that golden! I know what types of questions to ask because my job was one that required a certain type of investigation. It has nothing to do with class privilege and every thing to do with common sense. And OP, I guess I misread your post and assumed you had a great nanny job with benefits. I had assumed since you were being poached by so many families, you would have landed one of these high end nanny jobs by now. That is why I suggested therapy for you. Actually though there are a lot of holes in your story that don't add up You have NO other option but to prostitute yourself Thanks dirty girl- obviously you are a nurse if you know the plural of singular Latin suffixes.
Maybe Monkey shines twat is gourmet ;. What kind of lame stripclub do you go to? Those girls are all ok with touching and probing. I know because I had a strip class that I won at a club and those girls spilled the beans. Now when I give my husband a dance I say - what kind of club do you think this is?
Get your hands out of my vagina! D Lady go have some immoral wine. Well these comments have been fun to read. OP-you gotta do what you gotta do. Me, I just pick up multiple nanny jobs to make ends meet. I work with tons of girls in the sex industry. Though I am more their "coordinator" and offer protection to some of the girls. I don't look down on you at all. If the people at my job knew what I am involved in, in my outside career I would be fired. Currently I am trying to find investors to open up a cabaret. I like the sex industry. I just would never be one of those girls.
I have those girls work for me. Phoenix, you are truly all over the map. I don't know whether I can even believe you or not because I'm far too lazy to go back and look at your former posts to call you on it. I don't understand what you mean. And onto the even more dangerous reasons, like getting raped. Legalising prostitution would prevent these kinds of things happenings, would protect the women and prostitutes would have more power.
This is by far one of the most interesting posts and threads I've read on here. Thanks, everyone, for the entertainment! OP, my opinion is that if you're a great nanny, your employers are lucky to have you. It is absolutely none of their business what you do after hours. However, I can't condone what you do because it is illegal. Yes, prostitution should be legal because it is the adult's choice, but in most states it isn't, and you have to be prepared to suffer the consequences if you get caught The part I couldn't get over was when someone was it MS?
That has to be the grossest thing someone can say. It also makes me wonder--is it ok for a wife to give her husband a bj and then kiss the kids? The proper etiquette is to brush your teeth afterwards, everyone knows that! Of course I wouldn't be happy if my daughter came to me with plans to be a hooker, but then I also wouldn't be too pleased if she came to me with plans to marry a Bible-thumpin' fundamentalist. I agree that I wouldn't want to hire a drug dealer or prostitute to watch my child ren , but I would hire someone who was on welfare or who had a child as a teen-ager.
Since when does being on Food Stamps make you unfit to work as a Nanny? Seriously - thanks for this. It's only understandable that the field would widen to include nannies I, too, am a college-educated nanny who has gotten naked for money. Granted, mine is much tamer - I was a nude art model for a class of twenty people in college, since it was the best-paying job really available at university at the time. But still - I'm glad someone coherently wrote this article. I appologize if you thought I was judging. I've been around the proverbial block a few times and I'm not some conservative old lady.
I just worry for the safety of a woman who chooses this profession since I watch the news a few times a week and see the consequences of Craigslist hook-ups. It is a show that follows the life of real prostitutes in, I think, Reno, Nevada. It is a leagalized brothel and the show is quite graphic. These girls make alot of money and they do it legally but at the end of the day or the show it is pretty sad. Yes, they control the whole thing, they are safe and the sex is somewhat "sanitized". But, they are someones daughters, granddaughters, sisters.
As the mother of three daughters, it isn't something I would be proud of.
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Having said that, I am not condeming their choice to make their living this way. I am simply saying that it is unsafe to meet up with unknown men for sex. I'd rather be broke than dead. If given a choice of having sex with a stranger or living off the dime of the government, I would choose food stamps or welfare- hands down.
You don't risk your life or health by accepting help from the government. Again, I don't think this issue is especially nanny related Umass, My God woman Please e-mail me when you get the chance, please! Have any of you seen the movie "Human Trafficking"? OR watched a documentary on the Sex Industry?
Some as young as 9 years old. We will NEVER be able to keep track of who's in it for what purpose we're having a hell of a time doing it now! It should never be made mainstream or okay. I am working with a team that is trying to stop Human Trafficking, and there is still no end in sight. I have met some of these girls, and they can't understand why anyone would willingly have sex with strange Men for something like money. Legalizing the sex industry would in no way contribute or effect human trafficking: The sex industry is as old as time.
Just like marijuana, legalizing it is inevitable and it will happen eventually. I think legalizing the sex trade may actually help guard against human trafficking. If you are able to track it, ensure these ladies are being tested on a regular basis, and know who is involved with it, it will be easier to crack down on those exploiting children and those who do not wish to be involved in the sex industry.
For the time being, it's illegal, and I am not okay with anything illegal, although I do support its legalization in the future. I really don't see the difference between porn being paid to have sex and prostitution being paid to have sex. This makes me sick to my stomach. I really can't believe how immoral America has become. I work 4 jobs and having sex for money is NOT one of them. Yes, I am very busy, and I had to get creative to find these jobs. I really can't see the draw to the sex industry. I mean come on! Sure you make excellent money To each their own I guess, but I just don't get it, and I never will.
I wouldn't hire you. And I think prostitution should be legal. And because it isn't, I wouldn't knowingly hire a prostitute any sooner than I'd hire a cocaine dealer. Not because I agree that cocaine should be illegal, or that dealing in and of itself makes you a bad person-- but because it's illegal. Doing something repeatedly and consciously that can land you in jail IS jeopardizing your job. Even if you think you can keep the two separate, and not start using drugs yourself, you cannot be sure that the same is true of every person you come in contact with through your illegal job.
Maybe some employers don't have a problem with that. If not, good for them; it is their choice to hire drug dealers, prostitutes, hit men, or whomever else they'd like. I'd prefer someone else watch my children and have access to my home. The people who are saying that what you do on your own time is none of your employer's business are being incredibly naive. Yes, to some extent it is true. If you like to dress up in a bunny costume and hop around or have kinky leather-clad sex with your husband when you are home alone, there is really no need for your employer to know about it. But being a prostitute or sex worker or drug dealer on the side in addition to your job as a nanny is quite a different ball game, don't ya think?
Most people do not respect those professions because they are illegal and, to many people, immoral. They also entail working with a lot of sketchy people, doing sketchy things in sketchy places. Sometimes they are downright dangerous, even life-threatening. To many people, the decision to work in prostitution or drug dealing is indicative of poor decision-making skills, disregard towards the law, and low moral standards. That's just the way it is. Most people, myself included, do not approve of these jobs or consider them legitimate forms of employment.
Also, whether you work as a nanny or in an office as your "day job", if you were to be caught by the police for doing your side job, it would be incredibly embarassing for the people who hired you at your day job because it would reflect badly on them. So basically, because you are a nanny, don't be surprised if you get fired once your employers find out about your other job.
I hope they do find out because I find it highly unethical that you are hiding this information from them and not giving them the opportunity to decide for themselves whether or not they want a prostitute to care for their children. If you're so proud of it, you should tell your nanny family. But you seem to take pride in the fact that you're deceiving them. What we do in our spare time is our business and if we have to put food on the table by doing something a bunch of prudes find immoral than that just sux for you.
So you would rather sit and watch your kid starve to death, not have enough cloths, or running water than to help your family ease their suffering? If you choose to do that then you are worse than any thug I've ever met on the street. Most G's that I know want to support their family. And if you think that they are doing some poor decision making than you don't know what you are talking about. You can't pass judgement on something that you have no clue about.
YOu can't sit on your moral high horse and think that these people are doing the wrong thing when they are trying to make it in this world. I live on both sides of the law and I have two different me's.
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And that my friend makes me much better than you. It isn't up to anyone to push their code of ethics on anyone else. But prostitution is illegal and I do judge people who break the law and if I was the OP's boss, I'd fire her. I'd even consider calling the cops.
A few years back, I was into drugs. We all have skeletons in our closets!
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It wasn't until one of my very good friends got arrested for dealing that I got scared and stopped and I haven't done it in years now, but I still get tempted when money is running low. But I can't put my career in jeopardy to make a few extra bucks, even if it is a few extra hundred bucks. Think About It I completely agree with you. This nanny is jeopardizing the health of herself and the children she cares for.
Let's face it, prostitutes have contact with a wide variety of very sketchy individuals and generally do not use any form of protection. What this nanny is doing is not only illegal, it's just plain wrong on every level in my opinion. And yes, I am judging. I am totally against legalizing prostitution. There is no valid reason to make it acceptable for women to be taken advantage of, abused and objectified.
Instead, more effort should be geared toward helping these women to learn the skills they need to succeed at a job that doesn't involve illegal activity and a complete lack of self worth. No amount of money would be enough for me to exploit my body and abandon my values. Using the excuse that it pays well and there are no other jobs is BS.
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I've been in very tough financial positions and never did I contemplate prostitution as the solution. I seriously thought this was some sort of belated April fools post, but unfortunately, I'm wrong. Monkeyshines, That was actually funny! Ok, did I miss some sort of inside joke? I don't get it.
I think this is crazy! If your boss finds out and reports you to the cops, you will be made a sex offender! You will never EVER be allowed to work with children again! Why risk a hard earned college education? If you are as great at your job as you say you are ask for a raise. Or find a job that pays you enough to where you never have to resort to such acts anymore.
I understand you love the family you are with. I adore mine and could never imagine leaving them. But to put them at risk, and yourself at risk is just not worth it. I just find interesting some people here defending OP based on the fact that she was trying to support herself. Well, there's other ways to support herself, I truly believe there is, before going to the stripper gig. Now, some here were saying "would you rather let your children starve to death, not have clothes enough, bla, bla, bla", but who said she was starving to death?
Or that she had any children to support? And come on, not having clothes enough it's NOT a reason for whoring yourself. She said she did not want to leave the family who wasn't paying her enough to keep up with her bills. Well, I would rather a thousand times just leave this family than whore myself and keep a job that makes me go as low as this. Of course it is her option, her life, she does whatever she wants, and it's none of anyone's business, but I find it a hardcore way of making a living, and a hardcore option.
I think it's funny some ppl here applauding her to the extend that she is actually some sort of hero. Phoenix Based on what I've read here so far, you walk with a hardcore crowd, don't you? Most G's that I know want to support their family" G's, thugs, hos No wonder you applaud all of this.
You know what, although I'd never work as a ho, I've actually babysat for one. It's funny 'cause I recall her telling me the type of business she was into. She was a escort, a very good looking one, probably charged a lot. Once, I worked for her until late, and feel asleep in her sofa. She comes back home with one of her clients, and told me I could sleep in her house and leave the next day. I could hear the whole thing going on back on her room. I felt bad for her, as she had to deal with really nasty men the guy who went back to her house was at least 15 years older than she.
Phoenix Btw, prudes for disagreeing with the OP's choice? In what world are you at? Before I became a nanny, I was a prostitute on Craigslist because I needed money to live. I did it for about 6 months before I managed to get my first nanny job. After I got the job, I quit the sex business. I hated every minute of it. I only did what I had to in order to pay for my apartment, utilities and some ramen. It scared me to do this but I had to do what I could to be able to live. While I was hooking, I was also trying to find a real job but nothing ever worked out until I finally was hired to be a nanny.
I love being a nanny. Now I am putting myself through school so I will never have to go through that again. No one knows that I did anyone of that and no one ever will. I still get tested regularly because I am scared that even though I used protection, something may show up years later. This experience has ruin sex for me and is a dark time of my life. I would never engage in prostitution myself, BUT your words, Anon3, contradict each other.
Could the nanny turn your son into a womanizer?
Furthermore, women who knowingly prostitute themselves are largely NOT being taken advantage of, especially if they are in the situation OP was in. Your morals may prevent you from considering prostitution, but not everyone views it the same as you. I know in certain jurisdictions it's not a registerable offense, but I'm not certain about OP's. Until it's legalized which, again, I support , prostitutes are likely to come into contact with shady people and have less regulation regarding STD prevention, etc.
That's why I hope it will be legalized one day--to cut down on the potential risks posed by such an occupation. Sorry if this was incoherent It's time for bed! This is the thing: I'm not one to judge people. Desperate times sometime call for desperate measures. I wouldn't be concerned with what you do in the after-hours as long as it's not affecting your time with "my kids". There's also an issue of health. I wouldn't want someone who is exposed to so many STDs to be near my children.
If anything, I think that's the only thing that would make me go Eh But if I nanny I loved dearly came to me and opened up about her "past", the only thing I'd demand is proof that you have no diseases and you're drug-free.
But I advise against it as you will have those images imbedded in your brain! Lots of nannies sleeping with their bosses here! I'm a nanny and I'd never consider sleeping with my DB. I'm a graduate student and I make more as a nanny 3 days a week the other two days I work for the school more than what any recent graduate working a FT for some firm, makes.
I think we all need to look at the big picture here. You live with the choices you make, and at the end of the day, you are the one who is in control of what you do. Good for OP for sticking to her guns and taking that risk for something that she is comfortable with and feeling good about herself.
We all seem to live in our own little self-righteous bubbles and think our way is the only way. There are as many different ways to live as there are people in this world. So get used to it. OP is not hurting anyone. On the contrary, she sounds like way more of a productive citizen than many people here.
Yes I run with a very tough crowd. I am night and day, two completely different people. Daytime - I am a financial specialist and I have a Masters in Accounting. I don't know anyone's real name and they don't know mine. My husband and I are like Bonnie and Clyde. Honestly it is my husband's life that I was brought into. He was in a gang since a young kid so there you go. Actually I am quite tired. And yes, there is loss here: And what is the loss of anything if not the loss of connectedness to it?
In that sense, I lost my humanity. I lost my humanity in that I lost touch with it. While I never quite forgot about it, I pretended, because I was paid to pretend, that it was of no consequence. There are areas of life where it is necessary to buy into certain untruths. Sadly, and in a sense paradoxically, one of the biggest losses to prostituted women as a group is derived from the fact that they are a group.
It is in the fact that they must acknowledge and accept that they are collectively removed from the rest of society, and behave as such, and comfort each other in the knowing of it. For my own sake, I believe I was lucky to have the company of other prostituted women. Yes, certainly we would have been worse off had we been removed from society individually, but, in a physical sense at least, we were not, and our coming together as a group was a natural convergence.
There were positives and negatives in this, and of the negatives, the principal ones were defined by loss. We shared a collective lack of social standing and a dearth of respect from the world. We understood this, intensely, painfully. This was particularly obvious to me during my street-walking years.
To be excluded as part of a group may not sound as horrendous as being excluded as an individual, and if those two methods of exclusion worked independently of each other it would be true that it is not, but the truth for all those who are excluded as part of a group is that they are excluded as individuals also. They are debarred and expelled on both counts. This is not only true of prostitutes; it is true of the members of all socially excluded groups. Prostitution clearly promotes the depersonalisation of sex, which can never be good news for women — any women.
Prostitution has a ripple effect. It creates the illusory view in the minds of men that women are not human beings as men are, but simply the walking carrier of a product, and that they serve one principal function, whether or not they are paid for it, which is to be used as vessels for the sexual release of men. They are effortlessly and imperceptibly relegated from the realms of the human.
They are not people on a par with their male counterparts. When women tolerate prostitution they are actually tolerating the dehumanisation of their own gender in a broader and more encompassing sense. Countries with male-majority governments are implementing the legalisation of prostitution with frightening rapidity throughout the western world.
Where is the female revolt towards all this? There is no widespread female revolt because female sexuality has so long been viewed as a commodity that woman have begun to believe in the necessity of a separate class of women to provide it. The acceptance of prostitution makes all women potential prostitutes in the public view since there are only two requirements for a woman to work in a brothel: If a woman accepts prostitution in society, then she accepts this personal indenture, whether she knows it or not; and yes, that is a loss. This scheme in addition to defending the freedom of the press, offers readers a quick, fair and free method of dealing with complaints that they may have in relation to articles that appear on our pages.
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