1. Loving someone is a choice.
To love fearlessly and to lose eventually is something no one prepares us for. But falling in love is something we can control. I think we need to change the outlook of love. I think this force works on people who are ready to take risks. There was a long pause before either one of us spoke.
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Yes, she did make sense but the whole theory also seemed way too flawed. Of course, I never really got to rebuttal but it got me thinking. The fear of feeling trapped, or losing your love or being rejected is so crippling, yet we spend all that energy building a wall around us, than simply ask for help. I have an entire Facebook full of them.
To an extent, I was also really scared of being in a committed relationship because I was scared of losing the one I loved. I knew exactly what my friend was talking about, just that I never felt it to the extend she did. At the end of each excuse, it all boils down to one factor, we try and avoid pain. Something deep inside us refuses to stay alone and longs for that human connect.
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We all want to feel safe and not be bogged down by questions of uncertainty. Love might happen by chance. Love, is a risky affair and falling in love is no less than taking a trust fall. Not only do you have to let go of all your inhibitions and be comfortable in your own skin, but you must be able to trust the other person percent. But what about the cost of never committing? Rather, we could embrace love and see where it takes us.
Make the relationship your reason to face your fears rather than hide behind them. As much as we like to have the upperhand, and be the first one to sprint at the first sign of trouble, relationships work if the people involved take equal responsibility of each other by making sure the other feels loved, safe and strong.
It might seem like an effort, but the trouble will be completely worth it. But you will never know where the relationship is heading unless you never try. Taurus is more careful than other signs when it comes to allowing himself to be vulnerable. He keeps his guard up and keeps people at a distance until he can no longer deny his feelings and place his trust in them.
If the relationship is based on lust rather than love, Taurus will more than likely keep you at a distance with everyone else. This sign has a lot to offer in a relationship—he will be honest, loyal and reliable at all times. A typical earth sign, Capricorn is careful and selective about whom he spends his time with and whom he opens up to. Following his head instead of his heart, this sign usually resists the urge to discuss the things that are really important to him, because he knows that information can always be used against him.
Love might be in the air if he deviates from the norm and actually lets you into this important and personal part of his life. When he meets his soulmate, that relationship tends to defy the odds and rise above his career on the importance scale.
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If your relationship with a Capricorn is based on lust instead of true love, you might find that he never makes time for you. Whatever he might promise, you will never come before his life goals. Thanks to his fun-loving nature and carefree attitude, Gemini can be a great partner to have. The problem is getting him to commit in the first place because this sign can be quite restless.
In most cases, he gets distracted and bored very easily, so typically has many short consecutive relationships rather than long ones that last. But things change when he finds the one and falls in love. You know that Gemini has really fallen for you if the relationship is actually becoming serious, and he allows it to be a long-term thing.
Gemini is one of those signs who loves to fill his life with casual relationships. Remember that this sign has a kind of short concentration span, so his attention will always wander elsewhere after a while, even if he finds you super attractive. If he believes that he is in love with you, he will tell you.
When Cancer falls in love, he treats his partner like a god.
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Simply put, the shell Cancer wears, which he only takes off for people who are very important to him, makes him a completely different person. Being suspicious at the best of times, Scorpio does not award his trust to just anyone. And even then, he still only gives out his trust when the chemistry is right. Scorpio loves being in a relationship because it satisfies him mentally, spiritually and of course, physically.
Pisces is a sign with good intentions, but it can be difficult to get him to commit to a long-term relationship. If the relationship is based on love and Pisces is serious, he will be happy to stay loyal to you.