It just - is. I didn't know this at first. Now, sometimes I take it off just for a Fun Time Reward - he gets scratchies. Sometimes I take the blue one off and put the red one on, so I can launder the blue one. In any case, when I would take it off, I noticed he got this instant slightly worried look in his eyes and would try to lick it. I let him as I could tell it meant a lot to him, and then tried to get in comm with him about it. There were no particular thoughts on it forthcoming, he just would act a certain way when it was removed.
I observed him a bit after that. Sure enough, whenever I would take it off, it rattled him just a bit. I discovered that I needed to "peel" it off slowly and gently and then lay it down in front of him. He'd proceed to lick it very lovingly with glazed eyes, just for a little bit, then when he was satisfied all was well, he'd "release it to Mommy's care" and watch Mommy pick it up lovingly and put it wherever it was going such as laundry basket.
Again, from observation, I learned that I have to take it off verrry slowly and gently. If not, he gets that alarmed look in his eyes. I was like - what's UP with this? Nothing "occurred" to him, it was just what was done, because this was part of his body that Mommy was removing to tend to, and to remove it fast was a shock to his system, even though there was no actual "removal" pain or sensation. From my end, I learned how to even better treat him cater to his animal instincts and quirks but further, I realized that this was yet another example of something just "happening", with its resultant reaction; again, there was no "thinking" involved about what it all meant and that it happened before blah blah - something was just the way it was.
There's no judgement here as to wrong or right. We humans do this type of thing as well. Something presents itself, we don't understand, so we make "conclusions", correct or incorrect. Sure, it's incorrect that the harness is part of Fox's body. His body didn't grow it. It doesn't hurt when removed. But that doesn't matter to him. It smells like his body, it's contoured around his body, it has a mutual "relationship with his body, it resides about his body, it's a comfort zone and a "given", to him.
He concludes that it's part of his body, and must be treated as such when removed. Ironically, it's not like he gets upset when it's off, either, such as for grooming or the-heck-of-it-time. He's like Oh, okay, guess this is some sort of Special Occasion, since something Different is happening! And then when I go to put another harness on, he gets all excited because "Mommy's putting the harness on! It's just - time for a harness to be put onto his body by Mommy. They do this when they pick up on things, too, by the way. That is, you can get an idea and they can get it Just That Fast.
You think about ice cream and they suddenly decide to show up with an inquisitive look on their face. Well, no reason it can't go a bit deeper. You're thinking about losing your job and the ramifications of that. Next thing, we talk to them and they're worried about Relocating. You're not planning on moving! But they could have snatched an entire concept of, like, Well, if I lose my job, we may have to blah blah with the mortgage and that reminds me of the time I had to move when I was x years old and I'd vowed I'd never do that again under those circumstances and where would we go, anyway?
Heck, I always wanted to live in Colorado grinning to self What a nice fantasy, we'll all pack up and go to Colorado. Maybe we'll have some disaster grinning and we'll be "forced" to! It may be hard to get what I mean here, so just reflect on it for a bit See how they "think about", ponder, some things and try to make sense of them etc.
Very responsive to stimuli, very instinct driven. Heck, being instinct driven is what has let the Animal Kingdom develop and survive all these eons. Just take it all from their point of view, lack of "education", and lack of entertaining the human-oriented concepts we so relish. Animals are like 5 year old kids, mentality-wise. The being is wise but the "package", the "pet" you see, quite often isn't that sophisticated.
Because They Did It. You'll see more how this goes, and how to best work with it in your interactions with them, when you do the Initial Consultation. I offer Consultations done over the telephone. There is the Initial Consultation and subsequent Follow-Ups same animal for future issues. Areas of interest and concern taken up are covered on this page as well as below.
You pretty much know what you want to ask, though! Common areas are What is my pet really thinking? How do they feel? What's in their past? What do they wish to tell me? Imminent travel, moving, divorce, relocating and the like. There is an entire page on my site where I go in to more detail about this.
The page which has some hopefully helpful ideas, insights, tips and even a GPS visual drawing on how animals walk around! Please feel free to go to that page and read up on it if your pet is lost or missing or if someone you know's pet is lost or missing. If you need me for any other Aunt Julie services, I am here and available for this. I no longer not do the ongoing checking with them, checking on them, trying to track them, trying to nail down any one single "valuable" thing from them. I'm one of the few who have even been willing to take them on, and have now discontinued taking on any new cases except if you are an existing client and one of your pets goes missing and I won't necessarily take this circumstance on, either.
But definitely no new clients, that is, no one just starting with Aunt Julie with the first client-pet being a missing pet. I know this is an upsetting and desperate time, so do check the page on my site about the subject in case it's of value to you. Know that the above all comes from countless hours of doing this kind of communication and reasons pretty much too numerous to delineate but again, I did create that page entirely devoted to the subject, which covers a lot of ground and even some tips which may help you get your pet back. Please do contact me for comm with your pet living or passed over for any other basis than finding or recovering a lost or missing pet.
In that version, you would email me with what you wanted to know, I'd contact the animal telepathically, get the answers and feedback, and email you back. Well I'm not currently doing that version due to back disk-owie problems from years of sitting in front of the computer. With the Phone version, you and I can talk on the phone and the animal will tune right in - it's actually truly interactive - and you and I converse about things directly to and with them. It's three-way, that is, you and I are on the phone and in comm with the animal; human-wise, it's like a three-way phone call but I do the talking for the pet as well.
I also now do International calling. I mean, I did anyway, but now I've got an inexpensive calling plan I can use so this saves both of us heaps of money! My "old salts" who do ongoing animal communication are getting rather hooked on the Phone version. On occasion , I'll be writing to you and discussing something about your pet and out of the blue they'll shove some "input" right in there! IF this happens, I don't cut them off, and will pass along what they're communicating.
I don't encourage this in them as it's "off the record" i. I get what they wish to get across, make sure they're praised and acknowledged for communicating, and I let you know what it was about. What does Passed Over mean? See this write-up; return to this FAQ when done. When a pet passes and wishes to return to the owner as another pet, this transition is simple to accomplish though not always easy.
Some coordinating is generally entailed and it is important to ensure that the animal being is prepared for the ramifications as well as his new life, and that the owner knows how to conduct themselves at the initial states of this transition. Let's say your cat Princess has cancer and euthanasia is imminent. In the course of the Preparatory Consultation, she says she would love to come back as another cat for you! Or a dog, or a bird. Or she will "send a cat by" for you, and you'll "know it's her". All seems fine, but If a stray cat wanders by, is that Princess? If your neighbor suddenly tells you that her dog is about to give birth, is this a "sign"?
When is it "too late" for Princess to take a new body? What if you aren't sure you want another dog, cat, bird or pet at all? Do you keep Princess' same toys? What will she be like? Should you call her Princess, or -? Yes, it's for real and it happens all the time, but rather randomly. It's not generally structured or monitored, and no, chances are you won't trust your instincts well enough to know what to do.
There is no guarantee that your pet will come back to you if they are uncertain about things. Princess may not even know what to do, whether the time is right for you, whether you still want her, what effects seeing her old toys may have on her, etc. We will address if necessary any and all of the above as well as their preferences as to species, breed and coloring, and your lifestyle and preferences.
Ways to get this "exact" animal with the age range necessary for success are discussed I personally will not participate in kicking another being out of their body. Perhaps there is a kitten waiting right around the corner for you and you can't wait - but Princess wants to be a dog. Perhaps you wish to wait 4 months until you're done changing jobs and relocating. All this needs to be taken into account.
There is an exact way to "take in" your "new" pet, too. Certain subjects need to be carefully avoided vocally and in your thoughts. There is no "Fifi! You don't like kibble? There is an indoctrination which must occur - this is a new body for them and is fresh, ailment-free, has new and strong sensations, its own taste preferences, genetic background, etc.
They also need to be able to forget or remember as they so choose, learn potty training and tricks once again, tour their "new" home and generally be the New Baby. Most owners instinctly sense this but need a little help in the area. I've just talked to enough animal beings to know the effects created if this is not implemented at the outset. I will see them through their assumption of the new body and their initial settling-in period such as their first night home. This can be right after their passing, or you can take the time you need and then get back to me and we'll do the Transitional Service when you're ready.
Also, do not expect them to have the "same personality" or to automaticaly get along with the same household pets they knew before. Sometimes they're a little bit touchy about being the "newbie" once again and the others are a little bit touchy about the "new pet" showing up etc. Occasionally the pet will come up with a name for himself in his new upcoming body lifetime which carries a bit of a tribute to his just-finished lifetime.
I do NOT advise this coming from the pet owner or the suggestion of it had better be reeeeal "light" but if the animal comes up with it, so be it, as long as it's a clean decision, he's all morose and glomm-y sentimental about it. A head-held-high tribute "vibe" is great! Actual examples that the pets themselves came up with: The above is not available nor does it apply to animal beings who would state that they would like to or are going to go on to being human beings.
I don't touch that. Example of Transitional in Testimonial form. Here is a real-life example of someone who IS seeing this email excerpt used with her permission. Michael is the cat who passed over Sept ; Gino is a new addition to the household, male kitten Backstory is not relevant; I am giving you what the owner observes. We marvel at how much Gino is like Michael - so many things: It's a long list of stuff, more every day.
Joey is learning to stand his own, otherwise Gino would completely run over him. Later she added, "I'm amazed at how much of Gino is Michael. Like the slurping thing. I would expect that to stay with the old Michael body. I mean, I'm sitting at my computer, writing, concentrating, and Gino gets real close and starts slurping loudly. And he won't stop and he won't go away.
Or how they cuddle - that's definitely a part of personality from my experience - something else I would expect to be tied to a particular body. But that's how I recognized Binky at first when he came back. Michael had this very distinctive way of completely overwhelming Binky. Binky would be curled up, peacefully asleep on a chair, and Michael would get up on the chair and crawl ON TOP of Binky and walk around in circles until he plopped down on top of Binky, completely smothering him.
Binky would sort of wait for Michael to give him room to breathe, and then would have to push him off. Gino does that exact thing to Joey now. It's like the other cat is a just a pillow to adjust himself on. He doesn't just cuddle, he overwhelms. Joey took it pretty bravely, first shot. Gino, of course, took three times, and he's really upset right now. When I wormed him with liquid meds for roundworm, he literally staggered out of the room.
Michael was like that with medicine too. She ended the email saying there was more but she had to get back to what she'd been working on. The list goes on and on with a few pet owners, things only they would notice. Some never mention a thing, and I don't just ask for it out of the blue. If it comes up as a subject, no problem. In this person's case, she doesn't call Gino Michael, she doesn't dwell on it. This is NOT good for transitioned pets - you can imagine! One of her two kids wants to call him Michael and she has to work to stop that from going on; the other knows better and leaves it alone.
With others, I get no mention of it to me in emails or just the occasional. Again, I don't solicit it, but in any case, I do want you to know that it does go on, it does occur.. The Consults I do with the "new" Fifi are simply with Maxie. Their puppy they got a couple-a-months ago etc blah blah.. How do you locate the animal being for the Consultation?
You'll find that both are covered in this same write-up. It's a bit long but should prove informative. What I've found regarding "dead" animals directly relates to how I do what I do in the first place. How does one find that being in the first place, to communicate with them? You email me about your dog Rover, want me to ask him what foods he likes etc.
How do I find Rover? YOUR Rover, in fact? As discussed elsewhere on this site, animals are quite telepathic - they do this naturally. The "barks" and "meows" are what their bodies' sounds are literally physically capable of and are unto themselves one way an animal communicates. They utilize sound waves just as we do, but a dog can't "speak" as we do.
Nor can a dolphin roar like a lion. The bodies simply aren't designed with the right equipment! Again, this is a physical form of communication that ranks along side with their other obvious physical communications such as tail wagging. But they are very, very telepathic, so when attention is directed their way - specifically their way - they tune right in. It's instantaneous, slowed perhaps only by the occasional inattention, distraction or their being caught off guard "Huh? But as soon as they realize what's going on, they're excited and I get a lot of "Well, Hi!
They don't think twice about this telepathic contact coming their way, past the initial occasional being slightly startled by being interrupted from whatever they happened to be into that moment. It's we humans that would think we were "crazy" or something if this happened to us; we've got it so trained out of us that it seems unnatural, when it's actually not only quite natural, it's also what we're doing all the time too!
Some do get it, but they're so pooh-pooh'd at, invalidated, Oh Come ON! They "grew up", or they lost friends. Stories such as Peter Pan and Dr.
Doolittle have an element of truth running through them, despite the fantasy spun around it! Anyway, the animal being is very easy to contact. You and I are human beings - a being YOU, the one who lays in bed thinking at night, the one who wonders what 24 x 4 is, the one who uses their arm to scratch their itching leg plus a human species body.
They are an animal being because they are a being plus an animal species body. The bodies influence the beings a lot. If you had a cat body which was highly stimulated by little running things as they equated base-line survival something to catch and eat , you'd also have no qualms about bringing your "kill" to your master as that, too, is part of something that aids survival. We on the other hand, being "civilized" humans and capable of finding a meal at any fast food place, would find a dead mouse on our doorstep rather repulsive.
Yet both your cat and you are beings, and both are thinking and doing and computing decisions as we see fit and correct. So there is a being there, and this being is uniquely himself per se, they have no literal gender, the body does - though just as we do, they often define themselves as male or female because their body is male or female.
And that's who I find when I "reach out" and look for your Rover. And he's right there to receive my "connection" and so the conversing starts. One of the reasons it makes it easier for me to have some basic key details about the animal you want contacted and it can really help to have a picture of them to hand is that it's a good "ice breaker" - I can visualize them in their complete form for lack of better wording which is how they view themselves.
They ARE a kitty and they are fluffy white and so big and such and such and their name is Cassie and they love big plush pillows. If I have this concept in mind it helps me link up to and with the correct being out there. There are a lot of animals, a lot of cats, many named Cassie and so on. Compare if a friend took you to a train station, pointed to all of the people and said "Ok, who am I here looking for? Gives you an age range It can be difficult to "fly blind". It's not "cheating" - we're talking about a living being here and each individual, whether animal or human, is different and unique than all others.
I need some prompts to accurately locate your animal friend. And when I've got him, I've got him. When an animal's body dies, he's still contactable. There have been many times where I found a being and had no idea if they were "dead" or "alive" because I was conversing with a living being anyway! This was wild at first, believe me!
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They'd have recorded a mental picture of their body laying there dead, so I'd see this picture and conclude that Yes, they had been killed, for example, and they, not particularly caring or knowing that this had any importance one way or the other, would simply go, Huh. So to the humans, I'm "dead".
Like human beings, they have varying ideas about what it all means. They do of course often miss the physical contact, the huggies and stroking, the warmth, the closeness with their owners and so on. They also get quite upset at the owner's upset, grief and loss. They know of no way to comfort the owner as the owner can't "hear" them. Heck, the only reason that that isn't as upsetting as it could be is that frankly, they got used to that long ago simply by virtue of the fact that they were around humans who couldn't understand them their entire lives! Some take over new bodies puppies, kittens and when they have done so they are influenced by this new body, it's hunger, its growing sensations, its sleepiness, its freshness at being so young and new and so on, their new owners call them by a different name, they're in a new house, new smells, a new kid around throwing a ball which distracts them right into their new current environment which is so fun!
They are no longer Tiffany the 15 year old sick cat, they are now Rex the baby German Shepherd. But they are always accessible as it's the being that's being contacted. A couple of specific examples: Locating and identifying the correct being? It's almost like those movies and classically, soap operas, where someone disappears and comes back a long time later post-plastic surgery and their spouse doesn't know it's their husband or wife!? Yeah, right - I don't think so. You'd know if it was them or not.
You know the actual person: Well, it's that same "knowing". Some people just happen to have a more honed ability in the area than others. What does it "feel" like? A woman was worried whether or not her dead husband made it to heaven, so she decided to try to contact his spirit by having a seance. Sure enough, after the usual mumbo-jumbo of calling to the spirits, her husband's voice was heard answering, "Hello Margaret, this is meeee What's it like there?
And the only thing we do, all day long, are eat and sleep, eat and sleep, over and over. Where do the passed-over animals go? They're between bodies hanging out by a rock or tree or the left side of your bedroom wall or they have new bodies. They're your next door neighbor's frog or they're a newborn lion in Africa or they're hanging out around Philadelphia because they think it's cool to now be unhindered like they were when they were being an iguana in a cage.
This doesn't fly into the teeth of any religion or philosophy. Whether or not they are subsequently swooped up by a Supreme Being could still be up the line and is not discounted here, nor are Heaven or Hell for those who believe; Karma applies here for those who believe; reincarnation applies here for those who believe - etc etc etc. In fact, the only thing this flies in the teeth of are those who are certain that we are all molecules, only. Our bodies are, yep, but I think you already know better about the rest of this discussion. So the point is that what's true holds up under inspection, and when you've conversed with a being, there's no turning back.
You know what you know, and you know it as surely as you know your name. I'm sure you've had some experience in your life that couldn't be explained YET no one could shake you that it had happened. Something that was a "things that go boomp in the night". A feeling that someone really was in the room that night You knew and that's that. It's more like they assume, or they conclude, this. They don't lie, really - they just don't know in some cases. Sometimes it's simply a matter of them not knowing what hit them. A hard-hitting example was a lost pet one of the reasons I no longer do "lost pets" by the way ; she had been gone a week.
I got in comm with her and she recalled distinctly trotting down the side of the windy moutainous shoulderless hill-side road, and visiting various houses along the way, working her way through the forest la-de-dah. We kept checking on her and the sites she'd seen. Then one day someone read one of the flyers and contacted the owner and told them how he had hit their dog with his truck and so on, anyway, it was confirmed that she was dead and had been since the first evening she had left.
I had to gently get concept across to her. At first it was like, okay Nothing had changed for her, far as she knew! She was still "alive and well"! We went over the basic concepts again. She did then recall something about some sort of impact which did not hurt, she had been happily trotting along the side of the road, heard an engine, this did not spook her, she was in a Great Mood! Except this part was in her mind. She had the sensations of walking and so on all intact, mentally not dissimilar to an amputee's "arm" itching.
NO this is not the case with all of them! Plus on the "alive when they're not", you've got the added factor of them being a living being. Also, they've got the same array of confused ideas as we. You're assuming they're "in Heaven" or "at The Bridge" "RaInbow Bridge" go to the top of that page - for some reason this link only takes you to the bottom or "with angels" or "with your deceased dad" or "with Scruffy their passed over cat friend".
Perhaps they are, or are not. Perhaps "being in Heaven" for them is hanging out at the top of a tree they could never access before. But your concept of Heaven and their reality of Heaven would then differ, right? I had a client upset because her passed over dog cheerfully reported that she was now happiily a similar type male dog in another state.
The client said You can't believe in reincarnation and also in the Bible!! I'm no theologian and told her so. That's what the dog told me, so that's what I passed along. I did recall that on occasion, if a passed over pet had mentioned the idea of being another animal, that pet's owner would comment, Oh! Over the years, quite a few folks have had that spontaneous comment. This was what was real for THEM. She had a different upbringing or indoctrination or belief system.
And the pets, those beings, can pick up on your ideas, hear you talking about it, etc. They try to interact with you, can't. They try to tell you that they're in the spare bedroom by the left corner of the bed looking out the window, or, they're by your right cheek trying to warm it up so you feel the sensation. They try to send you their questions about What happened to them!? They go more and more into despair, figuring, well, where, who or what are they, then? THINK 5 year old child mentality. This is by the way part of why I fell into specializing in Passed Over Consults: NO pre-ordained ideas about things.
I do not project "Julie-ology" onto them or anyone else's "-ologies". They are as they are and are allowed to be as they are. If they are hanging out in a bush staring at a river, that's what they're doing. If they're up in the clouds - literally - with other beings doing performances with a top hat on, that's what they're doing. Just - whatever they say is fine with me, and this is very comfortable and comforting to them. There is more information about all this on the Passed Over ordering page and from reading some of the Passed Over.
Testimonials as well as about how it all works. See those pages as well. To date, the passed-over ones I contact are never angry at the owners for having them "put down" or "put to sleep". The owners are generally beside themselves with anguish, guilt, uncertainty as to whether it was the right decision, regret if they're not sure it was and completely understandable grief.
Often I hear that they have not gotten over it for many, many years. You should know going in that occasionally the animal being will spew out some ire, some upset, some curse words, mid-stream. Passed over pets understand a LOT more than the owners think and also forgive a lot. They're generally already used to the fact that it's, well, happened and done with.
They are also aware of being literally alive and aware, and cognizant of the fact that their owners aren't aware that this animal being is still literally alive and aware and has been all along. It's not hard on them to be contacted after they have passed over; they usually "flip out" at the re-connection.
It blows them away, they're so happy and grateful! We cannot therefore be greedy and worry about ourselves, our feelings. They are very moved by the fact that the owner cared and reached towards them enough that one more time - and got through, using a Pet Communicator. There are often no words to express their feelings. It's almost like - why deny this joy to them? And IF the passed-over animal is mad Allows them to get things off of their chest. They'll feel better - they always do.
I've gotten maybe 2 or 3 "Arrrgh! YOU just have to buck up and listen - let them say it. They don't blame you, they're just lashing out. If you know passing is imminent, you are welcome to have a Consultation for just this situation. Don't think they don't know, nor have their own questions and concerns often just about how the owners are going to be!!
Sometimes they want to know what to expect afterwards. Sometimes they want to know if it will hurt. Some they want to be carried there in their favorite blanket, some not. Sometimes they have specifc requests as to who is to go with them and who is not. I have had remarkable success with helping out in these types of delicate situations: Example actual email excerpt from my helping someone with this exact circumstance: You've been a complete blessing through this whole thing.
I'm sure God blesses you for your kindness, compassion, and for the help you give to humans and animals. I don't know how we would have made it without you. There is a page on this site devoted to Passed Over and Passing Over Pets ; also, please feel free to contact me about your ideas or plans if this applies to your situation. If at all possible, give it a little lead time such as if you're now considering it, as, once you are Animals, especially pets, can't wait to share their opinions, feedback and personal thoughts with you.
Here are some of the types of questions, concerns and curiosities many owners want me to ask about in the initial Consultation. Repeated spraying, peeing, etc. Introduction of new pet. Loss of fellow pet. Loss of friend, your significant other, someone else close with animal. How they feel physically, emotionally, mentally. Do they like their name? Confusions or something they've always wondered about or wanted to say.
General "how are you doing? Check out my page on Why Doesn't He Improve? This may offend some people, but Why do you jump when the hairdresser catches the comb in your hair? Why are you irritated if someone pulls your hair from behind? My attitude generally regarding the nail cutting and so on question is I think you get the idea.
What's the best way to handle a Hurricane Katrina victim or surviving pet? Ketaily, Mary — Based in Tucson, Arizona.
Animal Communicators in the United States
Kincaid, Maia — Based in Sedona, Arizona. Offers counseling sessions, classes, and private coaching. Koljord, Eden — Based in Flagstaff, Arizona. Offers animal communication as well as reiki and other healing modalities. Offers animal communication as well as homeopathy. Offers workshops and teleclasses, including a free six-part mini course, the occasional free minute teleclass on a variety of topics, and several home study courses. Meeske, Carla — Formerly Carla Person. Based in Phoenix, Arizona. Author of The Calico Shaman: True Tales of Animal Communication. Offers shamanism and animal communication counseling and training, including her Speak to My Heart shamanic animal communication workshop on DVD.
Other sites include SpiritLearning. Smith, Penelope — Based in Prescott, Arizona. She does not conduct consultations herself any more, but her site offers a great of information and resources, including details of her training materials and books. Windheart, Nancy — Based in Prescott, Arizona. Offers animal communication and Reiki consulting and classes. Offers communication sessions and workshops. Basanda, Susie — Based in Tehachapi, California. Offers animal communication, angel readings, and music. Offers consultations and workshops. Featured in issue 81 of Species Link. Author of Fur Shui.
Callahan, Sharon — Based in Mt. Animal communication, hypnotherapy, and animal rescue. Note the home page of the site has a video that plays automatically so beware if your sound is turned up. Featured in issue 79 of Species Link. Dalling, Suzi — Based in Ventura, California. Offers communication and healing. Offers animal communication and zen healing. Healing and animal communication. Monica — Based in Anaheim Hills, California.
Author of several books including Pets Have Feelings Too! Douglas, Terrie — Based in Chico, California. Eaton, Janel — Based in Escondido, California. Co-author of Animal Reiki: Gallegos, Renee — Based in Sausalito, California. Animal communication, Reiki, medical intuitive readings, and at-home cat care. Hiby, Lydia — Based in Escondido, California.
Author of Conversations with Animals. Featured in issue 69 of Species Link. Larson, Lisa — Based in Encinitas, California. Site offers very minimal information: Martin, Barbara — Based in Napa, California. Meyer, Marty — Based in Independence, California. Laurie — Based in Santa Cruz, California. Animal communication and Reiki. Featured in issue 70 of Species Link.
Peden, Charles — Based in Benicia, California. Psychic medium and animal communicator. Scarmera, Barbara — Based in Alameda, California. Schultz, Denise — Based in California. Steele, Marla — Based in Petaluma, California. Offers readings, classes, and a guided meditation CD. Site plays music automatically and has navigation rollovers with sound, so be warned if you have your sound turned up. Tao, Kazuko — Based in Windsor, California. Thackray, Gail — Based in Sylmar, California. Animal communication as well as healing for animals and people.
Weston, Cindy — Based in Escondido, California. Whitworth, Maria — Based in Novato, California. One-page site offering minimal information about services and contact details. Williams, Marta — Based in Middletown, California. Author of Learning Their Language: Animal communication and healing. Wright, Lori — Based in Cobb, California. Anspach, Sheri — Based in Boulder, Colorado. Animal communication, Reiki, and animal spirit portraits. Animal communication, Reiki, and canine massage. Hopple, Sue — Based in Monument, Colorado.
Krueger, Kelly — Based in Evergreen, Colorado. Nichols, Kelley — Based in Colorado. Priest, Amy — Based in Crestone, Colorado. Psychic, medium, and animal communicator. Solisti, Kate — Based in Boulder, Colorado. An Uncommon Catalog of Equine Wisdom. Featured in issue 66 of Species Link. They don't tell me this to "impress me" any more than I tell you any of the above to impress you. It just happened and they relate it to me as a matter of course and in the most matter-of-fact way. Seriously, I just do animals.
If you are interested in a bit of explanation on this, read the FAQ above regarding Telephathy and what are Psychics, etc. Oh - "Fletch" is the title character of one of my all-time favorites comedies, stars Chevy Chase. It is the time you and I spend together talking with your pet. A "Communication" or a "Comm" being used as a noun sounds a bit vague to me sometimes, although it does pardon the pun communicate.
A "Reading" can seem to imply that I am reading, pulling out of their space, somehow-knowing, picking up on what's going on with an animal being. Whether or not I can do that, to what degree, etc. I get their Communication - the communication they wish to send to me and you via me. There is a difference. There also may be an overlap. It's communicating, for sure. This is on the order of someone raising their voice when talking, changing the lilt or intonation of mid-sentence, raising an eyebrow as emphasis, etc.
The intention is to get and keep your attention and focus on them so that hopefully you will "get" what they're trying to tell you telepathically. Best to read that page in its entirety, but you can certainly just read the specific writeup on that. Here's the link to the page itself , and you can scroll down to the appropriate part, or just read the whole page.
When done, you can always go back to the navigation links at the top or to the left side of that page and use them to come back to this FAQs page. I KNOW you do. That's not to say I "get" human comm better than others, or that I'm some know-it-all. What I AM saying is it's very easy to get distracted by the physical apects of things and when someone happens to have a telepathic ability which is honed and in my case quite receptive to animal beings, they're a good candidate for being a "pet Communicator" and they can tell you waht your animal's "saying" which you can't necessarily otherwise fully get.
You can be very, very intuitive and also not get their comm, and vice versa. Hey - more than once Mom's been over and we're haning out in the living room yakking and Fox started fussing and Mom said, I think he needs to go out, and I went, Naw.. D'you want some food? Are you upset that Danny the kitty did blah-blah? It can be hard to do as he like so many of them don't repeat things, he'll just have the idea it's time to go out, if Mommy doesnt' somehow magically "pick up on this" because Mommy's busy yakking with her Mommy Not to be confused with the same grumbling part regarding I'm hungry!
You're not paying enough attention to me! Same as with a kid. And we all speak and hear just fine with them but sometimes don't "get" what they're trying to get across. In my case, really it'd be more non-attention. In someone else's case it'd be lack of honed ability to do so telepathically, BUT quite often you can get it just as well or even better in the ways that you and your furry family member already have well worked out between you.
There ain't nothing wrong with body language! It augments, adds to, the comm they're trying to get across: However, the nuances, the answers to questions, the life and death issues, the philosophical issues, the mental ideas, the recalls and memories, the subjective fears, these are all usually more the territory of this Pet Communicator.
Your comm with your animal is fine. Or somewhere in between. Talking with your pet via Aunt Julie will quite often improve that because your perceptions are validated - you knew that exact thing all along!! Or "that expression" she always makes, now you know what it means! Then, after the Consult, you avoid doing the "thing" your dog doesn't like that was behind "that expression" and things really change for the better.
Hey - you may not "have" the "ability" re: Be proud of yourself and don't let anything I do here invalidate what you're already doing, and do not let your own pride get in the way of noticing improvements beCAUSE of our talks. Think in terms of a 5 year old child, and, they compute rather than think, most of the time. Think 5 year old child. This is the best way I have come up with to describe it.
They can come up with the most brilliant and philosophical concepts, and they also put info together very simplistically, "clunkily", naively, innocently. This all happens in Pet Consultations. Your dog will be taken to be spayed. Later on Aunt Julie meets her for the first time. She remembers that one day she took a ride in the scary car, some scary stuff happened that she doesn't quite recall, something was sharp and owie in her leg, she woke up and something or other was "gone" down there and from that point on her impulses to have puppies seemed to be unfulfillable but she couldn't quite "get" why.
Aunt Julie has to get across to her basically what occurred and try explaining why to the dog who still wants puppies - sigh! Then 5 minutes later this same dog volunteers a dissertation about their owner and how this person has such integrity and has always felt blah blah about loyalties and there was this time that some boss back in tried to get them to do yak yak with the books and the owner wouldn't do that and this dog is - now - aware of it as they picked up on this incident from the owner's mind and is very proud of their owner and really respects them and We're talking with the being himself.
Herself, himself, whatever - that's a matter of the body's gender. I'll just say "himself" here for ease. Then when Aunt Julie and Mommy or Daddy comes along to communicate with them, they have to reconcile all these varying factors. Yes, this applies to Passed Over pets as well as they were last being an animal and still find themselves thinking like animals. They suddenly have to focus, think straight, and talk about things, same as a rational conversation you would have with someone. But their mind interjects a couple of thisses and thats, just as ours do, but theirs is canine thought process and impulses.
What you need to understanding, basically, is that we'll be talking with being you, me, an "animal" - all the same, a being is a being. This bypasses the whole species thing, that's why they can understand and respond to regular concepts. It's no different than you or I.
You are at your "best" at this time and kinda sleepy, stupid feeling or not quite as bright at other times. We know we're the same person but if we took a test in school we might not do as well. Someone talking with us might notice we weren't as sharp. We might not remember incidents as well as we normally would. Well, when we talk with your pet, figure the same thing s can come into play - their body shoves different sleeping and resting and energy spurt time frames at them, varying impulses and sensations at them, so respect that.
Know that they're not used to "thinking straight" and are more prone to thining life is all about running around barking and sniffing. That's all they usually ever do! So be prepared for a variety of concepts, random thought processes, and the like.
A cat's a cat - sorry! So if you and he get into a discussion about the morals of murder, likelihood is he'll still be very happy to guiltlessly go out and pounce on the nearest mouse. OR with guilt - but will do it anyway. This type of thing. The average animal "computes" rather than "thinks", most of the time, anyway. Doesn't occur to him that your son only comes home from school once a day and it's located south of your house and that's why he comes in that door blah blah. It's got his tags, it's quite comfortable, he's used to it, and he was raised with it.
That's me, we've all got different ways we do things with our pets, but that's what I do. Now, it means nothing to him one way or the other, it's just a part of life, and turns out that being raised this way created an interesting phenomonon: He doesn't "differentiate" and think deeply about what's man-made construction vs what the body grows skin, hair etc. It just - is. I didn't know this at first. Now, sometimes I take it off just for a Fun Time Reward - he gets scratchies.
Sometimes I take the blue one off and put the red one on, so I can launder the blue one. In any case, when I would take it off, I noticed he got this instant slightly worried look in his eyes and would try to lick it. I let him as I could tell it meant a lot to him, and then tried to get in comm with him about it. There were no particular thoughts on it forthcoming, he just would act a certain way when it was removed. I observed him a bit after that. Sure enough, whenever I would take it off, it rattled him just a bit. I discovered that I needed to "peel" it off slowly and gently and then lay it down in front of him.
He'd proceed to lick it very lovingly with glazed eyes, just for a little bit, then when he was satisfied all was well, he'd "release it to Mommy's care" and watch Mommy pick it up lovingly and put it wherever it was going such as laundry basket. Again, from observation, I learned that I have to take it off verrry slowly and gently. If not, he gets that alarmed look in his eyes. I was like - what's UP with this? Nothing "occurred" to him, it was just what was done, because this was part of his body that Mommy was removing to tend to, and to remove it fast was a shock to his system, even though there was no actual "removal" pain or sensation.
From my end, I learned how to even better treat him cater to his animal instincts and quirks but further, I realized that this was yet another example of something just "happening", with its resultant reaction; again, there was no "thinking" involved about what it all meant and that it happened before blah blah - something was just the way it was. There's no judgement here as to wrong or right. We humans do this type of thing as well. Something presents itself, we don't understand, so we make "conclusions", correct or incorrect.
Sure, it's incorrect that the harness is part of Fox's body. His body didn't grow it. It doesn't hurt when removed. But that doesn't matter to him. It smells like his body, it's contoured around his body, it has a mutual "relationship with his body, it resides about his body, it's a comfort zone and a "given", to him. He concludes that it's part of his body, and must be treated as such when removed.
Ironically, it's not like he gets upset when it's off, either, such as for grooming or the-heck-of-it-time. He's like Oh, okay, guess this is some sort of Special Occasion, since something Different is happening! And then when I go to put another harness on, he gets all excited because "Mommy's putting the harness on! It's just - time for a harness to be put onto his body by Mommy.
They do this when they pick up on things, too, by the way. That is, you can get an idea and they can get it Just That Fast. You think about ice cream and they suddenly decide to show up with an inquisitive look on their face. Well, no reason it can't go a bit deeper. You're thinking about losing your job and the ramifications of that. Next thing, we talk to them and they're worried about Relocating. You're not planning on moving! But they could have snatched an entire concept of, like, Well, if I lose my job, we may have to blah blah with the mortgage and that reminds me of the time I had to move when I was x years old and I'd vowed I'd never do that again under those circumstances and where would we go, anyway?
Heck, I always wanted to live in Colorado grinning to self What a nice fantasy, we'll all pack up and go to Colorado. Maybe we'll have some disaster grinning and we'll be "forced" to! It may be hard to get what I mean here, so just reflect on it for a bit See how they "think about", ponder, some things and try to make sense of them etc. Very responsive to stimuli, very instinct driven. Heck, being instinct driven is what has let the Animal Kingdom develop and survive all these eons.
Just take it all from their point of view, lack of "education", and lack of entertaining the human-oriented concepts we so relish. Animals are like 5 year old kids, mentality-wise. The being is wise but the "package", the "pet" you see, quite often isn't that sophisticated. Because They Did It. You'll see more how this goes, and how to best work with it in your interactions with them, when you do the Initial Consultation. I offer Consultations done over the telephone. There is the Initial Consultation and subsequent Follow-Ups same animal for future issues.
Areas of interest and concern taken up are covered on this page as well as below. You pretty much know what you want to ask, though! Common areas are What is my pet really thinking? How do they feel? What's in their past? What do they wish to tell me? Imminent travel, moving, divorce, relocating and the like. There is an entire page on my site where I go in to more detail about this. The page which has some hopefully helpful ideas, insights, tips and even a GPS visual drawing on how animals walk around! Please feel free to go to that page and read up on it if your pet is lost or missing or if someone you know's pet is lost or missing.
If you need me for any other Aunt Julie services, I am here and available for this. I no longer not do the ongoing checking with them, checking on them, trying to track them, trying to nail down any one single "valuable" thing from them. I'm one of the few who have even been willing to take them on, and have now discontinued taking on any new cases except if you are an existing client and one of your pets goes missing and I won't necessarily take this circumstance on, either.
But definitely no new clients, that is, no one just starting with Aunt Julie with the first client-pet being a missing pet. I know this is an upsetting and desperate time, so do check the page on my site about the subject in case it's of value to you. Know that the above all comes from countless hours of doing this kind of communication and reasons pretty much too numerous to delineate but again, I did create that page entirely devoted to the subject, which covers a lot of ground and even some tips which may help you get your pet back.
Please do contact me for comm with your pet living or passed over for any other basis than finding or recovering a lost or missing pet. In that version, you would email me with what you wanted to know, I'd contact the animal telepathically, get the answers and feedback, and email you back. Well I'm not currently doing that version due to back disk-owie problems from years of sitting in front of the computer.
With the Phone version, you and I can talk on the phone and the animal will tune right in - it's actually truly interactive - and you and I converse about things directly to and with them. It's three-way, that is, you and I are on the phone and in comm with the animal; human-wise, it's like a three-way phone call but I do the talking for the pet as well. I also now do International calling. I mean, I did anyway, but now I've got an inexpensive calling plan I can use so this saves both of us heaps of money!
My "old salts" who do ongoing animal communication are getting rather hooked on the Phone version. On occasion , I'll be writing to you and discussing something about your pet and out of the blue they'll shove some "input" right in there! IF this happens, I don't cut them off, and will pass along what they're communicating.
I don't encourage this in them as it's "off the record" i. I get what they wish to get across, make sure they're praised and acknowledged for communicating, and I let you know what it was about. What does Passed Over mean? See this write-up; return to this FAQ when done. When a pet passes and wishes to return to the owner as another pet, this transition is simple to accomplish though not always easy. Some coordinating is generally entailed and it is important to ensure that the animal being is prepared for the ramifications as well as his new life, and that the owner knows how to conduct themselves at the initial states of this transition.
Let's say your cat Princess has cancer and euthanasia is imminent. In the course of the Preparatory Consultation, she says she would love to come back as another cat for you! Or a dog, or a bird. Or she will "send a cat by" for you, and you'll "know it's her".
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All seems fine, but If a stray cat wanders by, is that Princess? If your neighbor suddenly tells you that her dog is about to give birth, is this a "sign"? When is it "too late" for Princess to take a new body? What if you aren't sure you want another dog, cat, bird or pet at all? Do you keep Princess' same toys? What will she be like? Should you call her Princess, or -? Yes, it's for real and it happens all the time, but rather randomly.
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It's not generally structured or monitored, and no, chances are you won't trust your instincts well enough to know what to do. There is no guarantee that your pet will come back to you if they are uncertain about things. Princess may not even know what to do, whether the time is right for you, whether you still want her, what effects seeing her old toys may have on her, etc.
We will address if necessary any and all of the above as well as their preferences as to species, breed and coloring, and your lifestyle and preferences. Ways to get this "exact" animal with the age range necessary for success are discussed I personally will not participate in kicking another being out of their body. Perhaps there is a kitten waiting right around the corner for you and you can't wait - but Princess wants to be a dog.
Perhaps you wish to wait 4 months until you're done changing jobs and relocating. All this needs to be taken into account. There is an exact way to "take in" your "new" pet, too. Certain subjects need to be carefully avoided vocally and in your thoughts. There is no "Fifi! You don't like kibble? There is an indoctrination which must occur - this is a new body for them and is fresh, ailment-free, has new and strong sensations, its own taste preferences, genetic background, etc. They also need to be able to forget or remember as they so choose, learn potty training and tricks once again, tour their "new" home and generally be the New Baby.
Most owners instinctly sense this but need a little help in the area. I've just talked to enough animal beings to know the effects created if this is not implemented at the outset. I will see them through their assumption of the new body and their initial settling-in period such as their first night home. This can be right after their passing, or you can take the time you need and then get back to me and we'll do the Transitional Service when you're ready.
Also, do not expect them to have the "same personality" or to automaticaly get along with the same household pets they knew before. Sometimes they're a little bit touchy about being the "newbie" once again and the others are a little bit touchy about the "new pet" showing up etc. Occasionally the pet will come up with a name for himself in his new upcoming body lifetime which carries a bit of a tribute to his just-finished lifetime. I do NOT advise this coming from the pet owner or the suggestion of it had better be reeeeal "light" but if the animal comes up with it, so be it, as long as it's a clean decision, he's all morose and glomm-y sentimental about it.
A head-held-high tribute "vibe" is great! Actual examples that the pets themselves came up with: The above is not available nor does it apply to animal beings who would state that they would like to or are going to go on to being human beings. I don't touch that. Example of Transitional in Testimonial form. Here is a real-life example of someone who IS seeing this email excerpt used with her permission. Michael is the cat who passed over Sept ; Gino is a new addition to the household, male kitten Backstory is not relevant; I am giving you what the owner observes.
We marvel at how much Gino is like Michael - so many things: It's a long list of stuff, more every day. Joey is learning to stand his own, otherwise Gino would completely run over him. Later she added, "I'm amazed at how much of Gino is Michael. Like the slurping thing. I would expect that to stay with the old Michael body. I mean, I'm sitting at my computer, writing, concentrating, and Gino gets real close and starts slurping loudly.
And he won't stop and he won't go away. Or how they cuddle - that's definitely a part of personality from my experience - something else I would expect to be tied to a particular body. But that's how I recognized Binky at first when he came back. Michael had this very distinctive way of completely overwhelming Binky. Binky would be curled up, peacefully asleep on a chair, and Michael would get up on the chair and crawl ON TOP of Binky and walk around in circles until he plopped down on top of Binky, completely smothering him.
Binky would sort of wait for Michael to give him room to breathe, and then would have to push him off. Gino does that exact thing to Joey now. It's like the other cat is a just a pillow to adjust himself on. He doesn't just cuddle, he overwhelms. Joey took it pretty bravely, first shot. Gino, of course, took three times, and he's really upset right now. When I wormed him with liquid meds for roundworm, he literally staggered out of the room.
Michael was like that with medicine too. She ended the email saying there was more but she had to get back to what she'd been working on. The list goes on and on with a few pet owners, things only they would notice. Some never mention a thing, and I don't just ask for it out of the blue. If it comes up as a subject, no problem.
In this person's case, she doesn't call Gino Michael, she doesn't dwell on it. This is NOT good for transitioned pets - you can imagine! One of her two kids wants to call him Michael and she has to work to stop that from going on; the other knows better and leaves it alone. With others, I get no mention of it to me in emails or just the occasional. Again, I don't solicit it, but in any case, I do want you to know that it does go on, it does occur..
The Consults I do with the "new" Fifi are simply with Maxie. Their puppy they got a couple-a-months ago etc blah blah.. How do you locate the animal being for the Consultation? You'll find that both are covered in this same write-up. It's a bit long but should prove informative. What I've found regarding "dead" animals directly relates to how I do what I do in the first place.
How does one find that being in the first place, to communicate with them? You email me about your dog Rover, want me to ask him what foods he likes etc. How do I find Rover? YOUR Rover, in fact? As discussed elsewhere on this site, animals are quite telepathic - they do this naturally. The "barks" and "meows" are what their bodies' sounds are literally physically capable of and are unto themselves one way an animal communicates. They utilize sound waves just as we do, but a dog can't "speak" as we do. Nor can a dolphin roar like a lion. The bodies simply aren't designed with the right equipment!
Again, this is a physical form of communication that ranks along side with their other obvious physical communications such as tail wagging. But they are very, very telepathic, so when attention is directed their way - specifically their way - they tune right in. It's instantaneous, slowed perhaps only by the occasional inattention, distraction or their being caught off guard "Huh?
But as soon as they realize what's going on, they're excited and I get a lot of "Well, Hi! They don't think twice about this telepathic contact coming their way, past the initial occasional being slightly startled by being interrupted from whatever they happened to be into that moment. It's we humans that would think we were "crazy" or something if this happened to us; we've got it so trained out of us that it seems unnatural, when it's actually not only quite natural, it's also what we're doing all the time too! Some do get it, but they're so pooh-pooh'd at, invalidated, Oh Come ON! They "grew up", or they lost friends.
Stories such as Peter Pan and Dr. Doolittle have an element of truth running through them, despite the fantasy spun around it! Anyway, the animal being is very easy to contact. You and I are human beings - a being YOU, the one who lays in bed thinking at night, the one who wonders what 24 x 4 is, the one who uses their arm to scratch their itching leg plus a human species body. They are an animal being because they are a being plus an animal species body. The bodies influence the beings a lot.
If you had a cat body which was highly stimulated by little running things as they equated base-line survival something to catch and eat , you'd also have no qualms about bringing your "kill" to your master as that, too, is part of something that aids survival. We on the other hand, being "civilized" humans and capable of finding a meal at any fast food place, would find a dead mouse on our doorstep rather repulsive. Yet both your cat and you are beings, and both are thinking and doing and computing decisions as we see fit and correct.
So there is a being there, and this being is uniquely himself per se, they have no literal gender, the body does - though just as we do, they often define themselves as male or female because their body is male or female. And that's who I find when I "reach out" and look for your Rover. And he's right there to receive my "connection" and so the conversing starts. One of the reasons it makes it easier for me to have some basic key details about the animal you want contacted and it can really help to have a picture of them to hand is that it's a good "ice breaker" - I can visualize them in their complete form for lack of better wording which is how they view themselves.
They ARE a kitty and they are fluffy white and so big and such and such and their name is Cassie and they love big plush pillows. If I have this concept in mind it helps me link up to and with the correct being out there. There are a lot of animals, a lot of cats, many named Cassie and so on.
Compare if a friend took you to a train station, pointed to all of the people and said "Ok, who am I here looking for? Gives you an age range It can be difficult to "fly blind". It's not "cheating" - we're talking about a living being here and each individual, whether animal or human, is different and unique than all others.
I need some prompts to accurately locate your animal friend. And when I've got him, I've got him. When an animal's body dies, he's still contactable. There have been many times where I found a being and had no idea if they were "dead" or "alive" because I was conversing with a living being anyway! This was wild at first, believe me! They'd have recorded a mental picture of their body laying there dead, so I'd see this picture and conclude that Yes, they had been killed, for example, and they, not particularly caring or knowing that this had any importance one way or the other, would simply go, Huh.
So to the humans, I'm "dead". Like human beings, they have varying ideas about what it all means. They do of course often miss the physical contact, the huggies and stroking, the warmth, the closeness with their owners and so on.
They also get quite upset at the owner's upset, grief and loss. They know of no way to comfort the owner as the owner can't "hear" them. Heck, the only reason that that isn't as upsetting as it could be is that frankly, they got used to that long ago simply by virtue of the fact that they were around humans who couldn't understand them their entire lives! Some take over new bodies puppies, kittens and when they have done so they are influenced by this new body, it's hunger, its growing sensations, its sleepiness, its freshness at being so young and new and so on, their new owners call them by a different name, they're in a new house, new smells, a new kid around throwing a ball which distracts them right into their new current environment which is so fun!
They are no longer Tiffany the 15 year old sick cat, they are now Rex the baby German Shepherd. But they are always accessible as it's the being that's being contacted. A couple of specific examples: Locating and identifying the correct being? It's almost like those movies and classically, soap operas, where someone disappears and comes back a long time later post-plastic surgery and their spouse doesn't know it's their husband or wife!?
Yeah, right - I don't think so.
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You'd know if it was them or not. You know the actual person: Well, it's that same "knowing". Some people just happen to have a more honed ability in the area than others. What does it "feel" like? A woman was worried whether or not her dead husband made it to heaven, so she decided to try to contact his spirit by having a seance. Sure enough, after the usual mumbo-jumbo of calling to the spirits, her husband's voice was heard answering, "Hello Margaret, this is meeee What's it like there? And the only thing we do, all day long, are eat and sleep, eat and sleep, over and over. Where do the passed-over animals go?
They're between bodies hanging out by a rock or tree or the left side of your bedroom wall or they have new bodies. They're your next door neighbor's frog or they're a newborn lion in Africa or they're hanging out around Philadelphia because they think it's cool to now be unhindered like they were when they were being an iguana in a cage. This doesn't fly into the teeth of any religion or philosophy. Whether or not they are subsequently swooped up by a Supreme Being could still be up the line and is not discounted here, nor are Heaven or Hell for those who believe; Karma applies here for those who believe; reincarnation applies here for those who believe - etc etc etc.
In fact, the only thing this flies in the teeth of are those who are certain that we are all molecules, only. Our bodies are, yep, but I think you already know better about the rest of this discussion. So the point is that what's true holds up under inspection, and when you've conversed with a being, there's no turning back.
You know what you know, and you know it as surely as you know your name. I'm sure you've had some experience in your life that couldn't be explained YET no one could shake you that it had happened. Something that was a "things that go boomp in the night". A feeling that someone really was in the room that night You knew and that's that.
It's more like they assume, or they conclude, this. They don't lie, really - they just don't know in some cases. Sometimes it's simply a matter of them not knowing what hit them. A hard-hitting example was a lost pet one of the reasons I no longer do "lost pets" by the way ; she had been gone a week. I got in comm with her and she recalled distinctly trotting down the side of the windy moutainous shoulderless hill-side road, and visiting various houses along the way, working her way through the forest la-de-dah.
We kept checking on her and the sites she'd seen. Then one day someone read one of the flyers and contacted the owner and told them how he had hit their dog with his truck and so on, anyway, it was confirmed that she was dead and had been since the first evening she had left. I had to gently get concept across to her.
At first it was like, okay Nothing had changed for her, far as she knew! She was still "alive and well"! We went over the basic concepts again. She did then recall something about some sort of impact which did not hurt, she had been happily trotting along the side of the road, heard an engine, this did not spook her, she was in a Great Mood!
Except this part was in her mind. She had the sensations of walking and so on all intact, mentally not dissimilar to an amputee's "arm" itching.