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I would do everything for my child ren but I know I am just a human and there are things that I love about each person. Maybe I will never learn how to love unconditionally.


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  • You are not choosing your children but you are certainly choosing your partner. You make a conscious decision to be with someone. Then, you make a conscious decision to be with this person everyday. If there is an unconditional love, there would be no divorces or break ups. Unconditional love has no boundaries and lasts forever. In my opinion, the only way to love unconditionally is to feel the same way to all the people in this world. No matter what the person does or looks like. If you pick a person to love, it means you do it for the specific reason. And this reason is always selfish and gives you some benefits.

    Would I love him if he was boring, stupid, ugly and selfish? Probably not, even though I believe we have a perfect love and happy marriage. Some people love animals more than their family members. I believe animals have a lot to teach us. They really know how to love unconditionally. You can treat them badly, hit them, starve them and they will still be with you. Dogs are willing to do everything for their owners. Keep on reading to see that self-love is one of the most important things in live. I am blessed enough to still have my grandmothers with me.

    One of them, Marysia, is one of the best people I know. She is kind, caring and wholehearted. Even though her parents died 40 years ago, she still cries every time she talks about them. She misses them a lot. When she was young her dad got paralyzed. She took care of them even though she had 3 small kids and a farm to take care of. She says that she only slept for 4 hours during these 10 months when her father was sick. He wore nappies but sometimes he took them off only to smear his face with his own excrement.

    But what my grandma did was unconditional and I really admire that. You may replace the word God with Energy , Universe or anything else you believe in. Human beings and the world itself is so incredibly beautiful and diversified, we are so blessed and gifted that there must be some kind of a Greater Power that loves us.

    There are many Bible verses about unconditional love. No matter if you are a believer or not, these sentences have some universal truth that we all need to follow in our lives. As stated above, I believe people are only temporarily capable of selfless love. Then we become less selfless and more demanding. Charity, blood or bone marrow donations are the perfect examples of an unconditional love. Such acts of selfless love make this world a better place. I truly believe that the more you give, the more you receive.

    We are being fooled by the idea that in order to experience a perfect love, we need to find a partner. We can experience it without being in a romantic relationship. If you want to be truly happy in life, start with trying to love yourself. The more unconditional this feeling is, the better for you. There are no princes charming or flawless princesses. We all have some defects. If you want to built a real and strong relationship , determine what you want in your life. Think about yourself and then look for a partner who fits your needs.

    In order to experience unconditional love, you need to stay in touch with yourself.

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    Accept your body, soul and your past. Be good and understanding to yourself. At the end of the day, there are no perfect people. The more love you feel inside, the more you are getting from the outside. Remember, if you want to change something, start with yourself. Take a closer look into your life.

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    Are there any people that would do everything for you? Do you know any foundation or charity organization that help those in need? If you look at the world from the right perspective, you will notice that you are surrounded by the perfect love. Let others love you, let them be good to you.

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    Accept everything that they want to give you. We are so busy all the time that sometimes we are unable to notice what we really feel. Calm your thoughts down by meditation. Worship your God and be grateful for everything She or He is giving to you. If you are not a believer, you still can practice gratitude everyday.

    Thank for all the things that are happening in your life, repeat the positive affirmations personally, I love those written by Louise Hay. You may not see the result of thankfulness immediately but keep practicing it everyday.

    With time, you will start to feel the perfect love inside you. We experienced something really bad, either from strangers or which is worse from the people we love. The clue to happiness and to experience an unconditional love is to forgive. By playing the bad situations all over again in your head, you are blocking the experience of perfect love in your heart. No matter if they are positive or negative- experience all the emotions. All it does is causing frustration. No one will ever be as you imagined. People are different, they have the right to act whatever they want.

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    If you really want to change something, start with yourself. All the happiness, the unconditional love is inside you.

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    If you are getting nervous or disappointed, you are unable to experience the perfect love. If you want to give something, do it without expecting anything in return. Be good to others not to be rewarded afterwards, but to become a better person. The subject of true love inspired poets and artists throughout the ages.