One man in the Bible is called "the friend of God" - Abraham. He is the "father of all who believe. His life shows the power of the faith that dwells within your heart. This book will help you retrace the steps of Abraham's faith from his call out of Ur to the altar which held his son, Isaac. You will see his growth from God's servant to His friend.

It will challenge you to walk in the steps of Abraham's faith. It will call you to see your faith in a new light. You can be more than God's servant. You can become God's friend. Paperback , pages. To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up. To ask other readers questions about Becoming God's Friend , please sign up. Be the first to ask a question about Becoming God's Friend. Lists with This Book. This book is not yet featured on Listopia. Jul 07, Jo rated it it was amazing Shelves: A great blessing of a book God spoke to me so much through this book.

In this world, friends are the bedrock to our sense of identity and belonging.


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The security and tenderness of the shared connection with a dear friend gives limitless strength and peace. In the intimacy of those special relationships there is no fear of failure or rejection or scorn. Our dreams are free to A great blessing of a book Our dreams are free to grow bigger and they seem nearer our grasp when they are nurtured in the warmth of friendship.

The best friends that I have in my life enrich and encourage me. I can do more and be more because of them. They guide and inspire me.

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My friends trust me. They allow me to fail and lift me up when I do. I need and love them in the best and worst of times. I am better because of the bond I share with them than I could ever be on my own. You will come away with a higher view of God and consequently a higher view of yourself in Christ. This translates into a more robust faith. Great read,but poorly edited The message shared by the author is truly worth reading. Such good work and he failed to have the book proofread. Ricki rated it liked it Sep 14, Chance Hicks rated it it was amazing Aug 28, Vickie Elam rated it did not like it Mar 31, Michelle marked it as to-read Sep 09, Jacqueline marked it as to-read Aug 09, Lydia marked it as to-read Mar 16, Steven Brady marked it as to-read May 29, Duke Lancaster marked it as to-read Jul 21, Donna marked it as to-read Jan 23, David Scott marked it as to-read Feb 01, Michael marked it as to-read Feb 16, Thank you so much, yes, this message is true.

And when you apply it, you feel changed immediately, it results in love and peace. Keep up the good work, God bless you for all that you are doing! During prayer the thought occurred to me that we can pray like servants rather than sons, so I decided to google the issue and found your post. Thanks for posting this. One of the replies to my comment was: Hi John, One of the things that struck me since posting this, is how offensive the identity of sonship is to some people. Jesus is coming back for a bride not a maid!

It might surprise some people, but God can actually manage quite well without us. He wants more Sons!

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To me a father is someone warm and loving, strong and consistent, fair and just — because my Dad is those things. Maybe I wouldnt be so easy to relate to God as my father if my relationship with my earthly father was more negative. You will then receive an automatic confirmation email from WordPress. That really amazed me.. In christ,we are son of God. This article leads to some questions about what the apostles meant when they referred to themselves as servant slaves doulos of God and Christ after the formatoin of the Church. Peter, John, James all address themselves as such.

What does it mean then for a modern believer to be known as a doulos of Christ, or does it have any signficance at all? Hi John, I just had heard something about this recently, is it by men or Holy Spirit? But it makes sense to me. Every true son though, will out of love take the role, the place of a slave of the Father of Love. He became our Servant. Makes sense to me! I have some of the same thoughts as John on this. I know that God is my Father and I look to Him as such first and foremost.

Is it wrong to identify myself as His servant as well? Grace not only saves me, it sustains me, helps me in times of need Heb. My post comes mainly from encounters with some in our church who are preaching grace in a way that says even encouraging believers to serve others is mixing law and grace. I ask them in light of 1 Peter 4: I find great joy in serving my heavenly Father by serving others and encourage others to do the same.

In serving others we participate in what our Father is doing.

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It is our Fathers nature to serve, as Jesus lived out for us, and being filled with His very nature it should come as natural as breathing is in the flesh. The post above is about identity and how we see ourselves. So as far as identity goes, you are a son of God.


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This is what the Holy Spirit teaches us Rom 8: Sadly, there is a lot of confusion on this issue of identity as my poll results reveal , but the fact is every single NT writer referred to God as Father. Creation waits for the sons of God to stand up and reveal themselves. We are the sons who serve, as I think you are saying.

But what service does God need? What could we possibly do for him? Frankly, God does not need our service at all. And he is not interested in recruiting servants but raising sons. As you say, we serve others. To say I am a servant of Christ means I serve in the same manner in which Christ served. Paul considered preaching the gospel as service to God.

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But when we preach the gospel, God is blessed through the increase of his family — he gets more sons and daughters. So one of the best ways we serve is by revealing the good news of his Son. Wow…this is some good truths…the kind that set free indeed! Thanks for being a blessing to the kingdom! When I think of my own children they can fill, or not fill, all three roles. They can deny that they are my children orphans as you call them. They can refuse to serve in the daily chores of the family. They can be dutiful children, but still not be friendly and miss creating a deeper bond.

Likewise in my relationship with God I find that I am closest to him when I open my heart in all ways. None of them diminish from the other. I cannot help but feel it is the same with us. No need to diminish one metaphor to enhance another. As I pondered this, I wondered if I searched this question if I would just find all the Scriptures, which I did, but then I found your page! How awesome is that? But, I have about 20 years of many other church messages in my head, including an incessant need to try to be good enough for God.

What would you say to someone like me, who wants to embrace the grace of God, but still struggles in seeing Him more as an unreachable, indifferent Judge than a tender-hearted Father? My advice is to keep going! Just trust the Lord to finish what he started and be quick to believe the good news of his grace. Hi Matt I understand where you are coming from. I used to go to a Anglican church about 30 years ago.

I wanted to get baptised which was basically a sprinkling on your head with water. Having spoken to the vicar and the trainee vicar who led the youth group the date was set. I remember about a week or so before my baptism when in youth group I said something silly. I got the sprinkling but with no joy.

I felt a fake and rather than identifying my faith in Christ dying to my old self, my focus was not on redemption or sonship but failure. I never knew my real father, I only have two memories and they are not pleasant, my mum threw me out when I was I had no feeling of being a child who was loved.

Like you I find it difficult to trust that I am a child, a child of our Heavenly Father. Truth is he is. Paul says trust the Lord to start what he finished. In an emotional sense I find that difficult to walk in but believe it to be true. So what I have done is to concentrate on various bible verses that negate my emotions and focus on the reality.

Verses that tell he will remember my sins no more, they have been removed as far as the East is from the West, he remembers we are made from dust, he does not deal with us harshly read Psalm In John So I focus on that. Yet I have no qualms telling others that God loves them as much as he loves Jesus. At some point the scales on my eyes will be removed and I will realise I am his son and he is my Father. I read your response when you first posted it Bill, just took a little time to reply.

Thank you for giving your perspective. What I hear from you is that some of your life experience has made it more difficult to emotionally accept that God loves you and has made you his child. There are many times in my spiritual walk that I feel utterly alone in it. To learn to abide — to shove away the distractions, deceptions, and diversions of life and rest in Him — that is what I am trying to learn lately. I have definitely had times when I knew that God loved me and cared deeply for me. These experiences have come through quiet personal times of prayer, study, and worship, but also through public times with friends and fellow believers who displayed the love of God to me.

I would say that I see clearly the love of God and his Kingdom purposes during these times, but then I can fall back into old darkened understandings of Him and the way He wants to interact with humans. I think continuing to strengthen our mind through Scripture, engaging in fellowship with believers, continual confession of our sins, studying, and an active prayer life all lead to a further falling of the scales. God has promised to finish the good work in me. Thanks again Bill for the thoughts and I hope to continue our conversation and hear more of your thoughts.

I understand that whoever believes in Jesus and what He has done, will not perish. Are the unbelievers called children of God too after the cross?

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He died for all. Im not even sure if my question make any sense. I believe that God is patient to those who rejects Him. As for the son thing, this is more like adoption. In other words, unbelievers are not sons or daughters because they rejected the offer of adoption. It is important to note that the earth is being redeemed, because most people think that we are to just escape to Heaven, which means that there would no longer be an image of God on earth. What about heaven on earth? I have really being blessed by this writeup…keep it up…more Grace….

I am definitely a SON. The Lord bless you for bringing it out so clearly. My spirit revolted those words. Just found your site. Satan is still using even Christians to change what the Lord has said.


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  • Paul, I want to thank you for what you are doing through E2R. I had a radical encounter with Jesus twenty years ago, which changed my life so much. Sadly, I never got the sonship concept. I discovered E2R almost a year ago, and have been here ever since. Reading your new posts, referring what I read back to the Bible, studying related passages, referring to the E2R archives, referring to other Grace writers, back to the Bible. I got Grace, Hyper Grace, but sonship evaded me, until last night that was.

    I love your work, clear, concise to the point. I love your sense of humour. I love your calling, Truth in Love setting the captives free. I love your patience with the slow guys, like me, Lol!! God bless you and your family. Pure joy and peace. It was as if I was reading a new book! This is very well put!