You can try to put some of the waiting time to good use, with books, notebooks, and various Apple accessories, but you must accept that much of your time will be spent doing nothing but waiting. Second, learn to accept that not everyone has the same logic as you. You might assume that logic is universal, since it is supposedly based on facts instead of opinions. But you would be wrong, as travelers inevitably discover, and the sooner you learn that logic is inseparably tied to culture and context, the easier your journeys will be.
Does this make sense to you? Speaking of help, in some cases people will offer to help you because they want something from you; other times people will go far out of their way to help you while repeatedly refusing any reward. In some cases you may think a problem is small only to find out it is insurmountable and naturally, the opposite is true. How do you learn to interpret different situations and relate them to what is true to you?
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Well, experience is the best teacher. Unlike waiting, interpreting culture does get easier over time. But first you must understand that logic is hardly scientific. Lastly, you must learn to reframe your experiences in a larger context. Are you traveling to find something?
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Because you are compelled to collect memories the way other people collect clutter? All these reasons and more are perfectly acceptable. But without a sense of purpose, you may find yourself frustrated, stuck in the traffic and missing the sunset at the beach. Not everything about travel is amazing; in fact, some things are downright unenjoyable. But if a traveler is what you are meant to be, you must learn to reframe and contextualize your experiences.
In this case, reframing means putting a series of encounters in balance. So I reframe and think: There is a great Lebanese breakfast waiting for me downstairs. Last week I went to Tripoli and ran along the Corniche. I have new countries to go to and old ones that await my revisitation. And so I learn to be a traveler again, learning to wait, remembering that not everyone has the same worldview as me, and putting it all in perspective. I forget most of the words I learn in various languages, but I try to remember these things wherever I go.
Logic is the same everywhere I think. What differs is what people value. In your example, in some places not losing face by not being able to help is valued more. Thanks as always for the many things you talk about on the site Chris.
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Will there be a book tour stop here in Jordan? I know there are at least a few fans with me here. A 5 minute ride should cost about 1JD, not The incorrect assumption that logic is universal gets me every time! But, without a doubt, the traveler has to get over it. I like this concept of reframing. Seems like the perfect thing for me to do today to start another week away from home. As a woman you will encounter another set of problems. Still I have only had overall positive traveling experiences so far.
It really is important that you keep perspective. India, for example was the least relaxing vacation I have ever spent, but the most mindblowing travel experience ever. Wait here, wait there, go photocopy this and that, wait some more. My longest wait was 6-hours Leaving Guatemala for El Salvador, though I have heard of several travelers waiting days! The cross-border truck drivers had the waiting skills down! What a wonderful thing to ponder: While standing in a line might be boring in a South Dakotan post office, waiting at a Tanzanian post office is a fascinating anthropological experience.
I am very relieved to hear that you are not doing your waiting in Tripoli right now…. I travel alone for all of the reasons you mention including the seemingly contradictory ones such as being alone and meeting people. Solo travel allows me to do either whenever the mood strikes. I love your bit about logic and directions.
Here in Ecuador, everyone agrees with me—about everything! PS So envious that you are in Jordan, one of my favorite countries. One of my favorite travel logic experiences happened at an ice cream shop in Mumbai. They only had single scoops on the menu, but I ordered a double. Even if I buy two ice creams? Learning to wait — so true!!! I am so relaxed about this now and it was many hours and sometimes days of waiting whilst travelling that taught me this valuable skill. Reframing is also an excellent way to express taking that step backwards to realise just how things are ad not get caught in the moment.
Like Kerry glad to hear Tripoli is already done and dusted as maybe not the most inviting situation right now…. There is a difference. We were at a place called Coral Bay Resort where we hired gear. This reminds me of some great advice from Eckhart Tolle. He reminds us that we do not derive enjoyment from activites — Rather, we either bring our enjoyment or not…if not, we can bring our acceptance or, more than enjoyment, our sense of genuine enthusiasm.
Travel taught me that I cannot control everything. I will wait and be patient, even if I thought I had a scheduled. I now enjoy my time alone in airports waiting for the next leg in journey.
What I find amusing in myself is that I can be the most impatient person in the world — at home. Suddenly I am the most serene and untroubled person. Wait in line at the train station?
Not a problem, I have a book. Bus stopped at some rest stop for an hour or more?
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And on it goes. I only start to get impatient again the day before it is time to come home. That should tell me something! I believe the travel skills you describe actually make us kinder, more patient, more open-minded people when we return home.
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She remained calm, polite, and apologetic, while he continued to rant. I prefer travelling with a companion but going it alone can be exhilarating.
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Exploring an unknown place in which you know no-one is challenging, frightening and exciting. It allows you quality time for yourself, helps grow your confidence and forces you to be self-reliant. It makes trip planning easier, gives you complete control over where you go and what you do, and helps you stick to your budget.
Tips for travelling alone. Alas, the answer was no. We were in Easter Island because we had spent a year saving for our big trip. Saving was far easier than we had anticipated and, as any expert traveller knows, being on the road is so often cheaper than living at home. If you have always dreamt of travelling long-term, make the year you set a target and start saving. How to save for a year of travel. My family are Bangladeshi, so bartering is in my blood. An expert traveller knows how and when to barter, when to push and when to back off.
Always barter with a smile on your face, have a target price in mind but let the vendor name theirs first. Finally, the good-cop, bad-cop routine works wonders. Peter plays the perfect English gentleman and I play the shrew — always with a smile of course. Every time I lost sight of Peter, I would lose the trail and have to call ahead to him.
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I was equally hopeless at other basic skills like reading a compass and a map, finding a good camping spot, starting a campfire and packing the right gear. Basic skills are useful for all travellers, particularly those who enjoy adventure. In London, waiting 15 minutes for a bus used to leave me agitated. Expert travellers are able to switch into a different mindframe on the road. They accept that plans will go awry and connections will be missed but they retain good humour and optimism nonetheless.
How to keep a sense of humour when travelling. For some, the compulsion to snap and share every meal, every cocktail, every sunrise and sunset is just too strong. Instead of sharing a blow-by-blow account of your travels, try uploading one album of your photos at the end of your holiday. This will have the added benefit of helping you switch off. If your work revolves around travel, you can share more often but be humble about it! Which of these skills have you mastered and which need work?
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