If someone behaves in a strange way, hurting you, ask yourself: When someone acts unloving, there is usually fear involved — it is not felt to be safe to open up and give and receive love. The idea of the Twin Flames loving only each other at heart might seem a bit far-fetched to us in our modern day society, where most people have at least a handful of partners in their lifetime, some many, many more.

This can be excruciating. Nearly all Twin Flames carry the core wound around fear of abandonment. Fearing that your Twin Flame will leave you or not be there for you. When our Twin interacts with other people, this fear is deeply triggered. I was shown recently that whatever we fear and that bothers us the most — once we feel it the deepest and are willing to move past it, we can release it for good. And beyond fear there is freedom.

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As long as we have fear, we have limitations. When we release these fears and rise above, Love becomes Pure Love. Not the Love we often experience on earth, which is full of expectation and conditions. Often in life people think they love someone when they are actually scared of losing them or afraid of ending up alone. Love of the beauty of nature, or Love of music, or Love of the innocence of babies and animals — and in doing so you will lift yourself into a higher vibration, allowing yourself to feel Love no matter what.

Love that holds no expectations and no force.

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I hope this answer provides some insight for those seeking relief and guidance. For an easy, fun way to manage your mindset, elevate your vibration and harmonize your journey with your Twin, have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames here. It contains powerful guided energy clearing meditations from the full program.

But when I am with someone, afterwards I sense his hurt and insecurity and possibly some jealousy. Part of me really misses the physical contact with a live person, especially him, naturally. But, at the same time, I feel bad if I am with another. Any suggestions or solutions would be welcomed. My twin flame is with me in spirit and a Twin Flame on the other side will want their earthly counterpart to experience and enjoy everything life can offer.

If you are picking up on any jealousy and hurt you may be tuning into his past ego-self, which is the remnants of his consciousness on the earth plane. We human beings are like energetic snails who leave energy trails wherever we go, and you could be picking up on this earth-related side of your Twin.

Twins who are connected across life and death are still always together and the Twin in spirit loves their counterpart so unconditionally that they are open to us coming to earth and being with others so that we can experience many different forms of love, always knowing that we love each other completely. Thank you Cassady, for another wonderful and insightful blog, this is something I have exprienced and I am experiencing again even as I type this. It is difficult to say the least, yet, I have started to come to terms with this and realize that I will continue to work on myself right now and continue to prepare for matters, while still sending unconditional love towards my Twin and live my truth, my experience, and my belief, accepting and not doubting our connection.

Thank you so much, angel! Thank you Cassady for your love and support.

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I will be looking into using energy clearing tools and I think I have started that process in many cases as well. One day I had a dream about this other man — again when my husband was out of town. We had some kind of a spiritual ecstasy — something I had never felt in my real life and so, so powerful. We have never met, by the way. Thanks for your interesting comment! As always it is completely voluntary whether you want the connection to be sexual or just a platonic one, however: I am so very interested in your classes.

I should be working soon and hopefully my financial circumstances will change soon. Count on my enrollment in a couple of months at the latest. Thank you so much for your response. Yes, my twin flame, Michael, and I had the privilege of knowing each other in this life time too. I miss his scent. I have felt him hold me, my hand usually, sometimes we cuddle. I hear him occasionally and have even seen him once standing at the foot of my bed.

In some ways it is actually better this way. We were pretty unhealthy together here on earth. He sure has matured! Until you came along, I was alone in this and very confused. I really appreciate you and all the work you put into your website. Words cannot express my gratitude. Sometimes I would love to tell more people to help those whose dear ones have passed away but I know not everyone is ready to open up to it.

Maybe with time the world will grow ready. I'm so happy you've found the site useful because I was in that exact situation not so long ago — with no info available online about relationships and Twin Flame connections across life and death. The love from my deceased twin who appeared when I decided my marriage was over is somehow very fulfilling and all-encompassing, and makes me feel sky-high with happiness.

I have been separated from my husband for some time now but just not interested in seeking out new partners. I know I have been triggered by a book I just read. Keep up the great work! Awww thank you Cici, that means so much to me! Did you write this article for me, Cassady? Thank you for the pointers. Is there a way to temporarily disconnect with our twin soul energy? This has been going on for a month now. I never thought about it that way, Thank You!!

I am learning that I am also an Empath which has helped me understand why people effect me so much. I never thought about it like that though; that expressing sympathy to someone through a similar experience, or because you relate to their feelings will bring my energy into alignment with theirs, taking it on. You are a very wise Soul, I always am learning from you. I had to temporarily block my twin from calling or texting me. I just need time to breathe and sort things one at a time. Hi Erin and Cassady, Did this blocking helped you?

I have to do similar thing to block she wants me to stay as friends and have casual relation with other people just to fulfill her desires but she says she loves me. It all running to other people started when we met as we were in LDR and once got back she started changing lot her psychological issues came out and going to other people of physical need.

She was not like this before only after meeting me it raised so much. She wants me to unblock her as she is not able to take that I am not talking to her so broke but wants to be friends and have other people. Will me staying away longer help her and she will find herself again as she has lost it. Her physical need will eventually stop.

As soon as I stopped talking to her fully it took her only two three days to break up with that person. She wants me to fulfill her needs but I cant be visit her frequently due to financial issues it will take time for us to be together physically. I have forgiven her for last cheating and can tolerate for sometime only her going to other as i am now at ease as i understand it can be kundalini awakening as i read once we met. I am focusing on other things and praying but she keeps calling me and texting me.

I have only blocked her on whastapp and not picking calls. I spend each day trying to just "go with it" and not trying to put it into a box. My current soulmate is teaching me that concept: I have never felt a connection like this ever and I don't want it to ever go away. This is my first visit here. It grabbed me because I was looking up "quieting the mind".

I have soooo much to learn. I have bookmarked your blog and signed up. I'm glad to have found this. I know I have so much work to do on myself but feel as though I need to put this "relationship" business to the side in order to work on myself. It's just so intense. Hi Cookie, I'm glad that my blog could be so helpful.

Honestly, I encourage you to look at the relationship that you're having with yourself. The soulmate activates all of you. While it may feel like the lessons come from outside and from being in relationship with him, they are simply igniting all the things in you that you need to work on as well as igniting the depths of your own love. Don't get lost in the external relationship.

I gently nudge you to bring your attention inward so you can learn all the lessons that arising within you during this sacred relationship with a soulmate. I'd like to share since this post cleared up something that has been bothering me for weeks. It feels so good to have the faith back. To be out of the grieving the loss of love, confusion, and despair phase.

It feels good to know there are others out there who have experienced this, and have come out on the other side. Thank you so much Cassady. I take full personal responsibility for clearing it all out, and doing the work it takes to get there to the other side, where I see you waving and smiling in the light. I like your comment, but I have a question. My last episode was with a karmic partner and upon that ending and when I turned to spirituality, I was convinced I was clear of my karmic debt. I dont deserve this!! He has a gf now, I found the fb pic like you and I literally started shaking.

We are separated now. I want it to be permanent. Does that make sense?? Hi Kim, we can have many soul mates, some of whom can resonate extremely closely to us in frequency but there is only one other being we share the same identical frequency as — the twin soul or twin flame. Clearing energy will help with everything you describe.

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I would strongly suggest energy clearings especially learning to do this yourself as these things can go deep and you yourself will be your own best analyst — so you can clear this stuff away and take the pain out, especially from your TF connection. What if you could learn the lesson from these life challenges without them continuing to cause you pain in the present?

The energies of pain and fear really can be cleared and healed. I appreciate your response. I have been meditating with the free kit you offered and my TF has been reaching out to me. I am currently in the process of separating from my husband as this awakening has pulled us in different directions. I am focusing on me right now and finding the light within. Hi My cousin has discovered that i am his twin.

He saw his past lives and then he saw 1 energy cut into two in meditation. When he researched he came to know about twin soul phenomenon. My twin keeps running then comes back. We have done this several times…my ego keeps telling me he is playing me but my soul deeply tells me he loves me. Sometimes I think I start stuff because I am also scared of being rejected. We are only 6 years apart but had followed almost the same life path with a few differences.

Oh my gosh this is so painful and I ask God why he ever let me cross paths with my twin flame as he has hurt me so much!! He has run away 4 times in 10 years and now has been with another woman for 7 years!! He used to scream from fear when I tried to reach out!!


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How do I get rid of his energy?? We have already been separated for a year. It is the most painful thing I have ever experienced. Do you think we will stay forever separate in this lifetime? I experience this We met 3 years ago from our previous hospital in a different city, but I had a bf then and he got gf too. Last year, I resigned from that hospital.

I transferred to another city, where i am currently working and so was he but to other hospital. April of this year, we were already on the same city, he was trying to communicate with me but I rejected it as I was still hurt with the previous relationship and thought that I still love my ex. I deactivated my old facebook that time and made a new one. Last June, I activated my old fb again. He was the one to message me first when I opened it, he was thinking that I blocked him. Then he added my new fb after that.

It all started there, we communicate everyday until we finally met up. He told me that it was his firstime to see a pair of eyes like mine where he felt that he will be happy and can see his soul…. I ask him to whom he had felt such feelings, he stopped and think and said to his first gf. But I think he was not sure of it. Synchronize things happened but I consider it that time as coincidence. I Got feeling scared, fear.. But I cant answer him properly.

I just felt that fear…. The cycle happened in 4 months but our communication is still continuous!

He will chat to everyone except answering my messages. He was really trying to hurt me. October 31—I decided to gave up and focused more on myself and to do what I really wanted. We are not friends on fb but when I played that love game…the name that my aunt used the same with his, is always poppin out on my result. I had a very heavy feeling that time. As I am thinking how to gave him up. I was editing my nurses notes and by the time I finished, the time on my screen was Much to my surprise, the signs were more visible, suddenly his name is everywhere.

And I searched and read about the He even starts to change his approach towards me. I still cannot understand what was happening. I read more about the twinflame. At first I was thinking I was the chaser…but no.