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We have come such a long way from the simple lullaby. Look at that word lullaby — so beautiful; onomatopoeic, even.

There is an Indian lullaby about the Moon Uncle , who lives far away, eating delicious sweetmeats and offering some in a bowl to the baby. There is an Iraqi lullaby that is so sad it is also sung at funerals, with lyrics suggesting the mother's desires for "your enemies to be sick and far in the barren desert".


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Unfortunately, my month-old daughter doesn't get many such lullabies from me, as by bedtime I am often ready to lie down and be sick in a barren desert myself. Bedtime in our house, on a bad day, is less about singing and more about me hiding in the next room wondering how cruel it is to just shut my eyes and wait for the wailing to stop. Yet it seems to me that things used to be simple, in my parents' day, and my generation has made them complicated.

Is all the information on psychological damage actually causing the damage? How is this huge industry making us feel? I asked baby sleep expert Andrea Grace if she thought new parents were getting too hung up on all this.


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  • Then when the baby naturally wakes in the night at the end of a sleep cycle, they don't know how to put themselves back to sleep. So they need to be rocked again. And in my opinion over the last few years there has been far too much emphasis placed on getting babies established on to very strict regimes, even if they can be successful for some. I mean, you don't see other mammals leaving their young to sleep alone in a different room, do you?

    She would not cry.

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    Then I gave birth to an actual human being, and found that I needed help. Grandparents to rock her. An iPhone that I dangled over her head with soothing MP3s playing — all of this became crucial. My daughter's father left when she was a few months old, and it was a challenge not to get stressed. My milk dried up and so formula known as satanic nectar on the internet saved the day.

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    But that was it. All my romantic ideas were otherwise out the window. Controlled crying was in. Yet there is always guilt.

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    By the late-night glow of the laptop, I read reports saying it was damaging to the child's psyche to be left to cry themselves to sleep. Online forums said triumphant things like: Both release oxytocin in men and women, the cutely renamed "cuddle chemical". Oxytocin promotes mental and physical relaxation. Pets snoring gently beside you in bed probably help with sleep along similar lines.

    Ah, if it were only that simple, especially in these uncertain climes In my informal, completely unscientific survey of friends and family, this is the most common cause of insomnia in people under the age of A friend suggests keeping a pad next to you and jotting your worries down and then nodding off.

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    I think her technique has inherent merit. This method gives your formidable brain the arsenal it needs to help you solve your problems as you sleep. You can then rise and shine in the morning. News Politics Entertainment Communities. Opinion HuffPost Personal Videos. The leaner you are, the better the flow of oxygen into you and toxic gases out of you. There is no abdominal fat pressing up against your diaphragm, preventing your lungs from expanding fully. There is less fat in your air passages causing turbulence as fresh air rushes into your chest. This keeps your brain bathed in a nice, constant solution of oxygen, fostering a sound sleep.

    Incidentally, it also keeps you from snoring, which allows those around you to sleep, reaping the benefits of your good health. And my number one way to fall asleep naturally? Toss the alarm clock! Try to go to sleep early enough so that you don't need this dastardly device to wake you up. This allows your body to tap into your own private sleep cycle.

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    Dedicated to your stories and ideas. A website by Thought. The further away you are, the harder it is for me to fall asleep. I wish I had my head on your chest instead of this pillow. Did I ever mention I sleep naked?