Stigma is driven by the words we use. A person with an alcohol disorder; a person with an opioid disorder, a person with a substance disorder.

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These words take the blame off of the person and put it where it should be; on the medical disorder:. To a large extent, these terms also presume a homogeneity in experience, character, and motivation that depersonalizes the people to whom the terms are applied. Such language is inconsistent with other medical language and standards. Consequently, there is a definite tension between being clear and unambiguous and communicating in shorthand with more speed and efficiency. In this case, where the lives of a historically marginalized population are at stake, there is a need to sacrifice efficiency in favor of accuracy and the potential of minimizing the chances for further stigma and negative bias.

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Because substance-related conditions are the number one public health concern in the United States and stigma is a major barrier to accessing treatment,1 reducing stigma is vital for enhancing public health. Methadone and buprenorphine are lifesaving, effective medications for opioid use disorder.

Their use reduces relapse and death far more than any other available treatment. Addiction is a behavioral syndrome characterized by compulsive drug use despite negative consequences. Patients successfully treated with methadone no longer meet the criteria for active opioid use disorder. Taking a medication to manage an illness is the hallmark of chronic disease treatment. Individuals taking medication to successfully treat addiction are physically dependent, just as someone taking insulin for diabetes requires a daily shot to be able to function normally.

Both will get sick if they stop their medication.


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This is where the generosity of our friends and supporters, like you, come in. And then three weeks into her trying to get clean we discovered she was pregnant.

We were lucky because she stayed clean for her entire pregnancy, unlike some addicts who use anyway. She didn't love herself enough to stop, but she loved my nephew enough to not want him to be born an addict. My nephew seemed to change my sister for the better, as I hear children can do, but she relapsed when he was about a year old.

And then she got clean again. And then she relapsed again. That time they found her blue in a fast food bathroom with a needle in her arm, it was a close call and it was terrifying. And recently she told me she has been having cravings but that she has been working out and doing positive things instead of drugs and I was so proud.


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And now she's in jail. My sister is a heroin addict and I'm mad. I'm mad that this is a disease that never goes away. I'm mad that I will always be afraid when a number I don't recognize calls my phone. I'm mad that I have to keep explaining to people who call and text at inappropriate hours and fucking tell me that they will change my life when they inform me about the "Do Not Disturb" feature on my phone that this feature doesn't work unless I add every single hospital in the area to my Do Not Disturb list because a hospital isn't going to call three times to get through.

I'm mad that my sister is in a jail cell right now and I have no way of making sure she's okay. I'm mad I've watched so many crime shows that in my head she is being beaten up in said jail cell because she has a big mouth and a bigger attitude to go with it. I'm mad that we have already made funeral arrangements just incase. I'm mad at the possibility of my nephew growing up without a mother.

I'm mad that even if he has one, she will always be an addict. I'm mad that I originally posted this under my real name and was forced by family to remove it and told not to discuss my feelings on the matter out loud. My sister is a heroin addict and I'm sad. I'm sad that she will never know a normal life as someone who is not an addict. I'm sad that she was so lonely and depressed she felt she had to turn to drugs instead of us.

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I'm sad I wasn't there for her more, and that I'll never know if it would have mattered. I'm sad that my mom has to deal with an addicted child and all of the negative things that come with it.


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I'm sad that rather than be retired and enjoy old age and the end of life, my mom is raising my nephew. I'm sad that I have wanted to write about this for a long time but have felt too selfish and exploitive of her problems to do it. I'm sad that I don't feel like I can openly discuss her addiction with anyone without seeing judgment in their eyes.

I'm sad for me. I'm sad that I feel guilty and selfish for being sad when I'm not the addict who is in a jail cell. I'm sad for my mom. I'm sad for her son.